03-31-2025, 03:29 AM
Bro, I went through the exact same thing when I got into my first real relationship. I used to think about beating off constantly, but once I had a girl who was actually into me, the urge just disappeared. I was so confused at first, but after doing some research, I realized that this is a totally normal shift. Your brain is rewiring itself to prioritize actual intimacy over solo release.
One thing that really stood out to me was the idea of “sexual transmutation.” It’s a concept where your body naturally redirects sexual energy into other aspects of your life—like attraction, confidence, and even motivation. Instead of wasting that energy on jerking off, your body is storing it for something more productive—like connecting with your girl on a deeper level.
Also, don’t underestimate the mental aspect. When you’re used to self-pleasure as a routine, it becomes a habit. But when you break that habit, even unintentionally, your brain has to adapt. Right now, it’s doing that in a way that’s actually benefiting you. You’re more focused on real attraction, and your body is keeping that desire alive for when you need it most.
My advice? Just go with it. If you’re happy and still feeling attraction toward your girl, there’s no problem here. If anything, it’s proof that you’re really into her. And when things do get more physical, trust me, it’ll be worth the wait.
One thing that really stood out to me was the idea of “sexual transmutation.” It’s a concept where your body naturally redirects sexual energy into other aspects of your life—like attraction, confidence, and even motivation. Instead of wasting that energy on jerking off, your body is storing it for something more productive—like connecting with your girl on a deeper level.
Also, don’t underestimate the mental aspect. When you’re used to self-pleasure as a routine, it becomes a habit. But when you break that habit, even unintentionally, your brain has to adapt. Right now, it’s doing that in a way that’s actually benefiting you. You’re more focused on real attraction, and your body is keeping that desire alive for when you need it most.
My advice? Just go with it. If you’re happy and still feeling attraction toward your girl, there’s no problem here. If anything, it’s proof that you’re really into her. And when things do get more physical, trust me, it’ll be worth the wait.