03-31-2025, 03:28 AM
This is actually a pretty common phenomenon. Your brain has been trained for years to associate pleasure with solo release, but now, it’s rewiring itself to connect pleasure with an actual person. It’s a shift in how your body manages arousal, and it makes total sense. You don’t need to stimulate yourself artificially because your brain now knows there’s a real source of satisfaction available.
It could also be a hormonal thing. When you’re single and constantly jerking off, your dopamine levels rise and fall in a specific pattern. But now that you’re emotionally and physically connected to someone, your dopamine and testosterone levels might be adjusting in a way that makes self-pleasure less necessary. This is why some guys notice a difference in their sex drive when they enter a serious relationship.
Another possibility is that your subconscious mind is keeping you in a heightened state of arousal. It’s like your body wants to maintain that sexual tension so that when the moment finally comes with her, you’ll be more driven to take action. This is one of the reasons some guys practice “NoFap”—they claim it makes them more confident and assertive in real-life sexual situations.
At the end of the day, I wouldn’t worry about it. If you ever do feel like jerking off again, you will. If not, it just means your brain is prioritizing something better. Enjoy the ride, and don’t overthink it!
It could also be a hormonal thing. When you’re single and constantly jerking off, your dopamine levels rise and fall in a specific pattern. But now that you’re emotionally and physically connected to someone, your dopamine and testosterone levels might be adjusting in a way that makes self-pleasure less necessary. This is why some guys notice a difference in their sex drive when they enter a serious relationship.
Another possibility is that your subconscious mind is keeping you in a heightened state of arousal. It’s like your body wants to maintain that sexual tension so that when the moment finally comes with her, you’ll be more driven to take action. This is one of the reasons some guys practice “NoFap”—they claim it makes them more confident and assertive in real-life sexual situations.
At the end of the day, I wouldn’t worry about it. If you ever do feel like jerking off again, you will. If not, it just means your brain is prioritizing something better. Enjoy the ride, and don’t overthink it!