03-31-2025, 03:28 AM
Man, I totally get where you’re coming from. When I got into my first serious relationship, the same thing happened to me. It was like my body just shut off the need for solo time. I used to think about jerking it every day, and suddenly, it just didn’t cross my mind. I think when you’re finally getting real intimacy, your brain shifts gears. It’s like your body is telling you, “Hey, we got the real thing now—why waste energy on something else?”
Another thing to consider is that your brain is in “chase mode.” You’re still in the early stages of the relationship, and everything feels new and exciting. Your body is prioritizing that connection and keeping you on edge so you stay fully engaged. It’s nature’s way of making sure you’re putting all your effort into the girl and not getting too comfortable with yourself.
That said, I wouldn’t worry about it too much. It’s not like you lost your ability; it’s more of a redirection of your sex drive. If anything, it could actually be a good thing because it means your desire is being funneled into real experiences instead of just habit. Plus, once you guys start getting more physical, you might find that it all balances out again.
But here’s the kicker—if you ever do get the urge again, I bet it’s going to be insane. I remember when I finally did it after a long break, and dude, it was like a cannon going off. The build-up makes everything way more intense. So, enjoy the ride, man. You might be in for some crazy experiences ahead.
Another thing to consider is that your brain is in “chase mode.” You’re still in the early stages of the relationship, and everything feels new and exciting. Your body is prioritizing that connection and keeping you on edge so you stay fully engaged. It’s nature’s way of making sure you’re putting all your effort into the girl and not getting too comfortable with yourself.
That said, I wouldn’t worry about it too much. It’s not like you lost your ability; it’s more of a redirection of your sex drive. If anything, it could actually be a good thing because it means your desire is being funneled into real experiences instead of just habit. Plus, once you guys start getting more physical, you might find that it all balances out again.
But here’s the kicker—if you ever do get the urge again, I bet it’s going to be insane. I remember when I finally did it after a long break, and dude, it was like a cannon going off. The build-up makes everything way more intense. So, enjoy the ride, man. You might be in for some crazy experiences ahead.