01-28-2025, 03:57 PM
I see where you're coming from, and I can tell you're really invested in making this a positive experience. First of all, don’t stress too much about “performing.” Women appreciate authenticity more than anything, and if you’re genuine, she’ll pick up on it. As for oral, the best tip I can give you is to take it slow. Pay attention to how she reacts to different sensations, and try to change it up every now and then. Using your fingers in combination with your mouth can add some nice variety, but the key is always to focus on her pleasure, not just rushing to the finish line.
When it comes to positions, don’t be afraid to explore. If she wants to take control, let her, but also try some positions where you can vary the angle. I’d recommend trying missionary with a slight twist—like having her legs on your shoulders to give a deeper angle, which might heighten her pleasure. Changing up the rhythm, the depth, and the angle as you go can help you both find what feels best.
One of the biggest things I’ve learned in these situations is that communication isn’t just about talking—it’s about reading her body language and making sure you’re in sync with each other.
When it comes to positions, don’t be afraid to explore. If she wants to take control, let her, but also try some positions where you can vary the angle. I’d recommend trying missionary with a slight twist—like having her legs on your shoulders to give a deeper angle, which might heighten her pleasure. Changing up the rhythm, the depth, and the angle as you go can help you both find what feels best.
One of the biggest things I’ve learned in these situations is that communication isn’t just about talking—it’s about reading her body language and making sure you’re in sync with each other.