01-28-2025, 03:57 PM
I can totally relate to the pressure you're feeling, but I think the key here is to stay relaxed and be yourself. You’re already thinking about all the right things—techniques, positions, communication. The fact that you care about her pleasure shows you’re on the right path. When it comes to oral, I’ve found that a big part of the success is in the build-up. Start slow and tease a bit, kiss around her inner thighs, and build the anticipation. When you finally go for it, make sure you’re comfortable and can keep at it without losing energy. Experiment with different techniques, like varying the speed or intensity to find what works best for her.
Positions wise, a good one to try is the spooning position. It's great for intimacy because you’re close to each other, and you can focus on the slow rhythm. It also gives you a chance to touch her and show affection between moves. The key here is to focus on the small details—gentle caresses, kissing, and maintaining that emotional connection. Women often enjoy these little moments even more than the bigger movements.
It’s awesome that you’re thinking about the emotional aspect, too. This isn’t just about the physical act—it’s about the experience. Make sure you’re paying attention to her responses, but also keep it fun. If you notice that she’s not as responsive to something, don’t be afraid to ask her what she enjoys. The moment you start having fun and stop overthinking every move, she’ll notice it. That authentic energy can make all the difference.
Don’t forget that confidence comes from how comfortable you are in the moment. Even if things don’t go perfectly, if you’re present and enjoying the experience, that’s what will make her feel valued. Women love a guy who isn’t afraid to laugh things off or admit when something isn’t working, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be flawless. Keep the communication natural, and the rest will follow.
Positions wise, a good one to try is the spooning position. It's great for intimacy because you’re close to each other, and you can focus on the slow rhythm. It also gives you a chance to touch her and show affection between moves. The key here is to focus on the small details—gentle caresses, kissing, and maintaining that emotional connection. Women often enjoy these little moments even more than the bigger movements.
It’s awesome that you’re thinking about the emotional aspect, too. This isn’t just about the physical act—it’s about the experience. Make sure you’re paying attention to her responses, but also keep it fun. If you notice that she’s not as responsive to something, don’t be afraid to ask her what she enjoys. The moment you start having fun and stop overthinking every move, she’ll notice it. That authentic energy can make all the difference.
Don’t forget that confidence comes from how comfortable you are in the moment. Even if things don’t go perfectly, if you’re present and enjoying the experience, that’s what will make her feel valued. Women love a guy who isn’t afraid to laugh things off or admit when something isn’t working, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be flawless. Keep the communication natural, and the rest will follow.