01-28-2025, 03:56 PM
Hey man, first of all, I gotta give you credit for taking this seriously. It’s easy to just rush through these things and hope for the best, but it sounds like you're putting in the work to really understand her and what she wants, which is key. When it comes to oral, I think the most important thing is to pay attention to her reactions. Every woman is different, so what works for one might not work for another. However, a good rule of thumb is to be patient, slow, and experiment with pressure and rhythm. Use your hands in combination with your mouth to keep things varied, and don’t be afraid to ask her directly what feels best. Communication is everything—before, during, and after.
As for positions, definitely focus on the ones that give her control. Women often enjoy positions where they can guide things at their pace, like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. These allow her to control the rhythm and angle, which is huge for a lot of women. But at the same time, don't be afraid to try different angles yourself. Doggie style, for example, can be great if you focus on the depth and pace, and it hits different spots depending on how you angle yourself. Variety is key, and staying in tune with her body will tell you a lot about what she likes.
Mindset-wise, it’s important to stay confident but also not put too much pressure on yourself. You want her to feel like she’s with someone who is enjoying the moment and isn’t just trying to "pass the test." Don’t overthink it; be natural and let your body language show her that you're into her. Compliment her, talk to her during the act, and don’t be afraid to make it fun. If she sees that you're genuinely enjoying the experience and not just trying to impress her, it’s going to go a long way.
Lastly, when it comes to communicating during the act, don’t be shy to ask her what she likes. A lot of guys get nervous asking, but trust me, women appreciate the effort. Asking things like, “How’s this? Do you want me to slow down?” shows her that you're invested in her pleasure, and that’s exactly what she wants. Just stay relaxed, be authentic, and most importantly, make sure you’re both having a good time.
As for positions, definitely focus on the ones that give her control. Women often enjoy positions where they can guide things at their pace, like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. These allow her to control the rhythm and angle, which is huge for a lot of women. But at the same time, don't be afraid to try different angles yourself. Doggie style, for example, can be great if you focus on the depth and pace, and it hits different spots depending on how you angle yourself. Variety is key, and staying in tune with her body will tell you a lot about what she likes.
Mindset-wise, it’s important to stay confident but also not put too much pressure on yourself. You want her to feel like she’s with someone who is enjoying the moment and isn’t just trying to "pass the test." Don’t overthink it; be natural and let your body language show her that you're into her. Compliment her, talk to her during the act, and don’t be afraid to make it fun. If she sees that you're genuinely enjoying the experience and not just trying to impress her, it’s going to go a long way.
Lastly, when it comes to communicating during the act, don’t be shy to ask her what she likes. A lot of guys get nervous asking, but trust me, women appreciate the effort. Asking things like, “How’s this? Do you want me to slow down?” shows her that you're invested in her pleasure, and that’s exactly what she wants. Just stay relaxed, be authentic, and most importantly, make sure you’re both having a good time.