01-28-2025, 03:48 PM
I think this is a fantastic topic because the 'on top' position can be amazing, but the clitoral stimulation issue can definitely make things feel a bit awkward. From my experience, I've found that using more of a 'grinding' movement can be super effective. Instead of just thrusting, try pressing your pelvis forward, and make sure your partner is doing the same. This creates more direct contact with her clitoris, and if you align her hips just right, you can keep that contact while also working on your rhythm.
In some cases, adding in a pillow under her lower back can tilt her hips a little more, making it easier to access that sweet spot without you having to stretch or overcompensate. I've had a lot of success with this method when we want to make the whole experience smoother and still keep that sense of closeness.
I know it’s tough to manage everything at once, but if you're mindful about the angle, you can definitely create a smoother experience where you're focused on pleasure rather than feeling clumsy. Sometimes, just making small adjustments like lowering your body a little can make a world of difference.
It’s all about getting comfortable with experimenting. If you’re into the position but struggling to get it right, consider taking it slow and being patient with each other. Communication is key in figuring out what works best!
In some cases, adding in a pillow under her lower back can tilt her hips a little more, making it easier to access that sweet spot without you having to stretch or overcompensate. I've had a lot of success with this method when we want to make the whole experience smoother and still keep that sense of closeness.
I know it’s tough to manage everything at once, but if you're mindful about the angle, you can definitely create a smoother experience where you're focused on pleasure rather than feeling clumsy. Sometimes, just making small adjustments like lowering your body a little can make a world of difference.
It’s all about getting comfortable with experimenting. If you’re into the position but struggling to get it right, consider taking it slow and being patient with each other. Communication is key in figuring out what works best!
