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How do we do this without zero gravity? - hilululu - 01-27-2025
I came across something in one of our threads that caught my attention, and I thought it’d be worth creating a new thread to dive into it a bit deeper and share my thoughts.
Apologies if this seems like a newbie tangent, but I’ve been wondering how you all suggest stimulating the clitoris while you’re engaged in intercourse, particularly when you're on top of her. I’ve found that it’s actually pretty difficult to do while you’re in that position. The clitoris is often covered by your abdomen, which makes it hard to directly stimulate with your body, and when you're on top, it feels like the area is almost completely blocked off.
Personally, I’ve had a hard time figuring out how to stimulate her in a way that’s effective when I’m on top. It feels clumsy and awkward, and I’m not sure if I’m missing something or if it’s just about finding the right rhythm or angle. Also, let’s be honest, most of us tend to have our arms pretty busy just stabilizing ourselves, maintaining a good position, and focusing on the rhythm of the thrusts, so it’s hard to find the time or energy to focus on additional stimulation.
I’m really curious to hear what others do in this situation. Are there certain techniques or positions that make it easier to incorporate clitoral stimulation while maintaining the flow of intercourse? Or is it just about being creative and making adjustments as you go? If anyone has any tips or tricks they’ve learned to make this kind of stimulation more seamless, I’d love to hear them.
It’s always great to hear different perspectives and experiences on how to improve that intimate connection, and I’m hoping that sharing thoughts here might help me, and others, find some helpful ways to make our partners feel even better.
RE: How do we do this without zero gravity? - piciossa - 01-28-2025
Great topic! I can totally relate to the struggle of trying to stimulate the clitoris while in the 'woman on top' position. It does feel like the clitoris gets hidden by the abdomen, making it tricky to reach with any kind of consistent pressure. I’ve found that adjusting the angle is key. Instead of focusing on pure thrusting, try tilting your pelvis slightly or leaning back a bit. This allows more room for your partner’s clitoris to come into contact with your body, and you can use your hands more easily to offer additional stimulation.
Sometimes, it’s also about finding the right rhythm. Slow down the thrusting a little and focus on getting the right movements to brush against her clitoris. This can help prevent the awkwardness you mentioned and might make the experience more fluid. I’ve found that incorporating a hand or even just using your body to caress her while in the position can make a huge difference.
Also, if you’re feeling really off balance or busy with stabilization, try experimenting with different positions or props (like pillows) to create an angle that works better for both of you. Trust me, even slight changes can help!
Lastly, communication goes a long way. Just check in with her and see if she’s feeling the sensation you’re going for. It’s great that you’re already thinking about making her feel better during sex
RE: How do we do this without zero gravity? - antonio123 - 01-28-2025
Man, this is a challenge I’ve also faced! When you’re on top, it feels like the whole clitoral stimulation game changes. For me, the key has been not to focus so much on hitting the clit directly with every thrust but rather to explore other forms of indirect stimulation. For example, when I’m on top, I might press my pelvis down in a way that allows her clitoris to rub against me or even against the pubic bone. It’s all about the right pressure and angle.
The best part is you can use your hands to touch and stimulate her at the same time. I know it’s tough when you’re already juggling everything else with maintaining rhythm and position, but trust me, small movements count. The beauty of the on-top position is that you can still reach out with a hand to tease, rub, or even flick her clitoris while continuing thrusting.
Also, if she’s guiding the movement, she can help adjust her angle for a better alignment. I've found that a little back-and-forth communication during sex goes a long way when it comes to figuring out what works best for your partner.
In the end, it’s all about being creative. Sometimes you have to try a bunch of different things before you find the sweet spot, but once you get it right, it’s super rewarding
RE: How do we do this without zero gravity? - deigo123 - 01-28-2025
Great question, and you're definitely not alone in wondering about this. I think the main challenge with clitoral stimulation while being on top is that it’s easy to lose that direct contact unless you’re very intentional about it. I find that a slight change in position can work wonders. For example, try moving just a little forward so that her clitoris is better aligned with your pelvic area. If you’re too far back, it can feel like a lot of effort for very little result.
One thing I’ve done is to combine the on-top position with a subtle shift to doggy style, where she’s leaning forward a bit while still in charge of the movement. This can open up her body more to you, letting you stimulate her clitoris directly with your body or even fingers. This gives you more freedom to control the action, and she can still stay on top, essentially.
It also helps if you’re really good at multitasking with your hands—don’t be afraid to experiment with using your fingers while you're still going at it. It takes a bit of coordination but once you find the rhythm, it feels amazing. Even a small change in speed can make a huge difference when you're trying to incorporate extra pleasure.
And don’t forget that positions are just one part of the equation. Sometimes, the mood or mindset can make a bigger difference in how well things go. Keep exploring, it’s part of the fun
RE: How do we do this without zero gravity? - hanar123 - 01-28-2025
I think this is a fantastic topic because the 'on top' position can be amazing, but the clitoral stimulation issue can definitely make things feel a bit awkward. From my experience, I've found that using more of a 'grinding' movement can be super effective. Instead of just thrusting, try pressing your pelvis forward, and make sure your partner is doing the same. This creates more direct contact with her clitoris, and if you align her hips just right, you can keep that contact while also working on your rhythm.
In some cases, adding in a pillow under her lower back can tilt her hips a little more, making it easier to access that sweet spot without you having to stretch or overcompensate. I've had a lot of success with this method when we want to make the whole experience smoother and still keep that sense of closeness.
I know it’s tough to manage everything at once, but if you're mindful about the angle, you can definitely create a smoother experience where you're focused on pleasure rather than feeling clumsy. Sometimes, just making small adjustments like lowering your body a little can make a world of difference.
It’s all about getting comfortable with experimenting. If you’re into the position but struggling to get it right, consider taking it slow and being patient with each other. Communication is key in figuring out what works best!
RE: How do we do this without zero gravity? - amravat123 - 01-28-2025
I completely feel you! It’s definitely not always easy to manage the clitoral stimulation while on top. One thing I’ve learned is that during this position, you need to be aware of the body's natural curves. When I’m on top, I try to position myself in a way that allows me to push against her in just the right spot so that the friction is maximized. Sometimes it’s as simple as adjusting your angle or moving a little faster or slower to create that optimal feeling.
Another trick I’ve used is letting my partner guide me for a little bit. If she’s on top and has more control, she can adjust herself for the best contact, and then I can follow her lead while focusing on maintaining that rhythm and supporting her movements. This makes the process smoother for both of us.
Of course, hands can be an excellent addition to the equation. Sometimes, it’s just a matter of getting a bit creative with how we use them—whether it’s lightly pressing on her clit or gently caressing her.
At the end of the day, it’s all about being adaptable and communicative. Each partner’s body is different, and sometimes figuring out the perfect way to stimulate while staying in the moment is about trial and error. But once you find the right approach, it’s totally worth it!