01-28-2025, 03:48 PM
Great question, and you're definitely not alone in wondering about this. I think the main challenge with clitoral stimulation while being on top is that it’s easy to lose that direct contact unless you’re very intentional about it. I find that a slight change in position can work wonders. For example, try moving just a little forward so that her clitoris is better aligned with your pelvic area. If you’re too far back, it can feel like a lot of effort for very little result.
One thing I’ve done is to combine the on-top position with a subtle shift to doggy style, where she’s leaning forward a bit while still in charge of the movement. This can open up her body more to you, letting you stimulate her clitoris directly with your body or even fingers. This gives you more freedom to control the action, and she can still stay on top, essentially.
It also helps if you’re really good at multitasking with your hands—don’t be afraid to experiment with using your fingers while you're still going at it. It takes a bit of coordination but once you find the rhythm, it feels amazing. Even a small change in speed can make a huge difference when you're trying to incorporate extra pleasure.
And don’t forget that positions are just one part of the equation. Sometimes, the mood or mindset can make a bigger difference in how well things go. Keep exploring, it’s part of the fun
One thing I’ve done is to combine the on-top position with a subtle shift to doggy style, where she’s leaning forward a bit while still in charge of the movement. This can open up her body more to you, letting you stimulate her clitoris directly with your body or even fingers. This gives you more freedom to control the action, and she can still stay on top, essentially.
It also helps if you’re really good at multitasking with your hands—don’t be afraid to experiment with using your fingers while you're still going at it. It takes a bit of coordination but once you find the rhythm, it feels amazing. Even a small change in speed can make a huge difference when you're trying to incorporate extra pleasure.
And don’t forget that positions are just one part of the equation. Sometimes, the mood or mindset can make a bigger difference in how well things go. Keep exploring, it’s part of the fun
