01-28-2025, 03:45 PM
Honestly, it sounds like you’re already on the right track just by caring enough to ask these questions. A lot of guys don’t realize how much of a difference the little things make. For example, setting the mood can be a game-changer. Dim the lights, light some candles, play her favorite music—these details might seem small, but they can help her relax and get into the right headspace.
Another thing I’ve noticed is that timing matters. Sometimes, it’s not about how long you’re spending on foreplay or sex but when you’re doing it. If she’s tired or distracted, it’s not going to hit the same way as when she’s fully present and in the mood. Paying attention to her energy levels and adjusting accordingly can make a huge difference.
From a technique standpoint, variety is key. Don’t just stick to what you know—try mixing things up. Maybe one night, focus entirely on her pleasure without expecting anything in return. Use your hands, your mouth, or even just your words to drive her crazy. The more you explore, the more you’ll learn about what works for her.
Finally, never underestimate the power of confidence. When you’re fully present, focused, and sure of yourself, it’s contagious. Women can pick up on that energy, and it helps them feel more comfortable and open. It’s not about being cocky—it’s about being confident in your ability to please her and making her feel like she’s the only woman in the world.
Another thing I’ve noticed is that timing matters. Sometimes, it’s not about how long you’re spending on foreplay or sex but when you’re doing it. If she’s tired or distracted, it’s not going to hit the same way as when she’s fully present and in the mood. Paying attention to her energy levels and adjusting accordingly can make a huge difference.
From a technique standpoint, variety is key. Don’t just stick to what you know—try mixing things up. Maybe one night, focus entirely on her pleasure without expecting anything in return. Use your hands, your mouth, or even just your words to drive her crazy. The more you explore, the more you’ll learn about what works for her.
Finally, never underestimate the power of confidence. When you’re fully present, focused, and sure of yourself, it’s contagious. Women can pick up on that energy, and it helps them feel more comfortable and open. It’s not about being cocky—it’s about being confident in your ability to please her and making her feel like she’s the only woman in the world.