01-28-2025, 03:37 PM
Hey! I think you’ve brought up some really good points here. From what I’ve learned, timing and technique are way more important than size when it comes to sexual satisfaction. If your boyfriend can last a little longer and focuses on things like foreplay or clitoral stimulation, that’s going to make a much bigger difference than you might think.
For me, I’ve realized that the buildup to sex is just as important as the act itself. If your boyfriend takes the time to warm you up—whether it’s through kissing, touching, or even just creating an intimate atmosphere—you’re already halfway there. The more aroused you are before penetration, the better the chances of reaching orgasm.
I also think it’s important to let go of the idea that orgasms are the only goal during sex. Sometimes the most satisfying experiences are about the closeness and pleasure you feel together, even if you don’t finish every single time. That being said, if you’re looking for ways to make orgasm more likely, incorporating toys or experimenting with positions that provide more clitoral stimulation can really help.
Most importantly, don’t hesitate to talk to your boyfriend about what works for you. If he’s the right guy, he’ll be eager to learn and make sure you’re satisfied. A good partner is one who listens and adapts, so be open about your needs and see how things progress. You’ve got this!
For me, I’ve realized that the buildup to sex is just as important as the act itself. If your boyfriend takes the time to warm you up—whether it’s through kissing, touching, or even just creating an intimate atmosphere—you’re already halfway there. The more aroused you are before penetration, the better the chances of reaching orgasm.
I also think it’s important to let go of the idea that orgasms are the only goal during sex. Sometimes the most satisfying experiences are about the closeness and pleasure you feel together, even if you don’t finish every single time. That being said, if you’re looking for ways to make orgasm more likely, incorporating toys or experimenting with positions that provide more clitoral stimulation can really help.
Most importantly, don’t hesitate to talk to your boyfriend about what works for you. If he’s the right guy, he’ll be eager to learn and make sure you’re satisfied. A good partner is one who listens and adapts, so be open about your needs and see how things progress. You’ve got this!