01-27-2025, 04:10 PM
I came across something in one of our threads that caught my attention, and I thought it’d be worth creating a new thread to dive into it a bit deeper and share my thoughts.
Apologies if this seems like a newbie tangent, but I’ve been wondering how you all suggest stimulating the clitoris while you’re engaged in intercourse, particularly when you're on top of her. I’ve found that it’s actually pretty difficult to do while you’re in that position. The clitoris is often covered by your abdomen, which makes it hard to directly stimulate with your body, and when you're on top, it feels like the area is almost completely blocked off.
Personally, I’ve had a hard time figuring out how to stimulate her in a way that’s effective when I’m on top. It feels clumsy and awkward, and I’m not sure if I’m missing something or if it’s just about finding the right rhythm or angle. Also, let’s be honest, most of us tend to have our arms pretty busy just stabilizing ourselves, maintaining a good position, and focusing on the rhythm of the thrusts, so it’s hard to find the time or energy to focus on additional stimulation.
I’m really curious to hear what others do in this situation. Are there certain techniques or positions that make it easier to incorporate clitoral stimulation while maintaining the flow of intercourse? Or is it just about being creative and making adjustments as you go? If anyone has any tips or tricks they’ve learned to make this kind of stimulation more seamless, I’d love to hear them.
It’s always great to hear different perspectives and experiences on how to improve that intimate connection, and I’m hoping that sharing thoughts here might help me, and others, find some helpful ways to make our partners feel even better.
Apologies if this seems like a newbie tangent, but I’ve been wondering how you all suggest stimulating the clitoris while you’re engaged in intercourse, particularly when you're on top of her. I’ve found that it’s actually pretty difficult to do while you’re in that position. The clitoris is often covered by your abdomen, which makes it hard to directly stimulate with your body, and when you're on top, it feels like the area is almost completely blocked off.
Personally, I’ve had a hard time figuring out how to stimulate her in a way that’s effective when I’m on top. It feels clumsy and awkward, and I’m not sure if I’m missing something or if it’s just about finding the right rhythm or angle. Also, let’s be honest, most of us tend to have our arms pretty busy just stabilizing ourselves, maintaining a good position, and focusing on the rhythm of the thrusts, so it’s hard to find the time or energy to focus on additional stimulation.
I’m really curious to hear what others do in this situation. Are there certain techniques or positions that make it easier to incorporate clitoral stimulation while maintaining the flow of intercourse? Or is it just about being creative and making adjustments as you go? If anyone has any tips or tricks they’ve learned to make this kind of stimulation more seamless, I’d love to hear them.
It’s always great to hear different perspectives and experiences on how to improve that intimate connection, and I’m hoping that sharing thoughts here might help me, and others, find some helpful ways to make our partners feel even better.