12-27-2024, 01:26 PM
I can see why you’re looking for advice. It sounds like you’re in a relationship with someone who has a much higher sex drive than you, and while that’s not inherently a bad thing, it’s clearly causing some strain. You’re not alone in feeling overwhelmed—this kind of dynamic can be challenging for anyone.
One thing that stood out to me is how you’re trying to accommodate her needs while also dealing with your own exhaustion and even physical pain. That’s not sustainable, and it’s okay to say, “I need a break.” Relationships should be about mutual respect, and that includes respecting each other’s limits. If she truly cares about you (and it sounds like she does), she’ll want to work with you to find a balance that doesn’t leave you feeling drained.
Have you considered talking to her about why she feels the need for so much sex? Is it just a high libido, or is there something else driving her behavior? Sometimes people use sex to feel close, deal with insecurities, or even cope with stress. Understanding where she’s coming from might help you address the issue in a way that feels supportive rather than critical.
At the end of the day, your health—both physical and mental—has to come first. If this continues to be an issue, it might be worth seeking advice from a relationship counselor or therapist. They can help you navigate this in a way that strengthens your relationship rather than creating more tension. Remember, it’s not about “fixing” her or yourself—it’s about finding a dynamic that works for both of you.
One thing that stood out to me is how you’re trying to accommodate her needs while also dealing with your own exhaustion and even physical pain. That’s not sustainable, and it’s okay to say, “I need a break.” Relationships should be about mutual respect, and that includes respecting each other’s limits. If she truly cares about you (and it sounds like she does), she’ll want to work with you to find a balance that doesn’t leave you feeling drained.
Have you considered talking to her about why she feels the need for so much sex? Is it just a high libido, or is there something else driving her behavior? Sometimes people use sex to feel close, deal with insecurities, or even cope with stress. Understanding where she’s coming from might help you address the issue in a way that feels supportive rather than critical.
At the end of the day, your health—both physical and mental—has to come first. If this continues to be an issue, it might be worth seeking advice from a relationship counselor or therapist. They can help you navigate this in a way that strengthens your relationship rather than creating more tension. Remember, it’s not about “fixing” her or yourself—it’s about finding a dynamic that works for both of you.