12-01-2024, 08:01 AM
Hey, man, I’ve been there. My partner also doesn’t orgasm from penetration, and at first, I thought I was doing something wrong. But then I realized that every woman is different, and for most, the clit is where the magic happens. It’s not about your skills; it’s just biology. Once I stopped stressing about it, our sex life got way better.
If your partner prefers shorter thrusting sessions, listen to her. My girlfriend once told me that the long thrusting sessions I thought were impressive were actually kind of a turn-off for her. She wanted more variety and less focus on “lasting long.” So, we started trying new things—like using toys or focusing on foreplay—and it made a huge difference.
Another thing we tried was syncing our movements to make the experience more intimate. For example, I’d slow down and let her take the lead in certain positions. It gave her more control over the rhythm and pressure, which she loved. Incorporating clitoral stimulation during penetration also became a regular part of our routine.
My biggest takeaway? Don’t overthink it. Talk to her, try new things, and remember that sex isn’t just about the destination—it’s about enjoying the journey together. Once you shift your mindset to prioritize her pleasure, you’ll find that the connection between you deepens, and the experience becomes more fulfilling for both of you.
If your partner prefers shorter thrusting sessions, listen to her. My girlfriend once told me that the long thrusting sessions I thought were impressive were actually kind of a turn-off for her. She wanted more variety and less focus on “lasting long.” So, we started trying new things—like using toys or focusing on foreplay—and it made a huge difference.
Another thing we tried was syncing our movements to make the experience more intimate. For example, I’d slow down and let her take the lead in certain positions. It gave her more control over the rhythm and pressure, which she loved. Incorporating clitoral stimulation during penetration also became a regular part of our routine.
My biggest takeaway? Don’t overthink it. Talk to her, try new things, and remember that sex isn’t just about the destination—it’s about enjoying the journey together. Once you shift your mindset to prioritize her pleasure, you’ll find that the connection between you deepens, and the experience becomes more fulfilling for both of you.