12-01-2024, 07:57 AM
Great question! The sensations you’re describing—like the warm wave and the fiery flow—sound like you’re activating your prostate indirectly. That’s definitely a step in the right direction. With external prostate stimulation, it’s all about patience and persistence. Unlike direct stimulation, it may take longer to build up to an orgasm, but it’s absolutely possible.
One thing I’ve noticed is that your mindset plays a huge role in this process. Try to relax as much as possible and focus on the sensations rather than the outcome. Sometimes the pressure to “achieve” an orgasm can actually hold you back. Let your body guide you. If you’re feeling pleasure building, keep going with what works, and don’t hesitate to adjust your technique slightly if you feel the sensations shifting.
You mentioned your arm getting sore—this is super common when you’re first trying. A simple solution is to use a massage device designed for perineal stimulation. These can maintain consistent pressure without tiring you out. Another trick is to vary the intensity of your touch. Start light and then gradually increase the pressure as you feel more aroused.
Finally, try combining your stimulation with mental imagery or fantasies. Sometimes connecting physical touch with arousing thoughts can amplify the sensations and bring you closer to that elusive orgasm. Keep experimenting and don’t get discouraged—it’s all part of the journey!
One thing I’ve noticed is that your mindset plays a huge role in this process. Try to relax as much as possible and focus on the sensations rather than the outcome. Sometimes the pressure to “achieve” an orgasm can actually hold you back. Let your body guide you. If you’re feeling pleasure building, keep going with what works, and don’t hesitate to adjust your technique slightly if you feel the sensations shifting.
You mentioned your arm getting sore—this is super common when you’re first trying. A simple solution is to use a massage device designed for perineal stimulation. These can maintain consistent pressure without tiring you out. Another trick is to vary the intensity of your touch. Start light and then gradually increase the pressure as you feel more aroused.
Finally, try combining your stimulation with mental imagery or fantasies. Sometimes connecting physical touch with arousing thoughts can amplify the sensations and bring you closer to that elusive orgasm. Keep experimenting and don’t get discouraged—it’s all part of the journey!