12-01-2024, 07:57 AM
Sounds like you’re really close, man! That warm, flowing sensation is a classic sign that you’re stimulating the prostate indirectly through the perineum. The perineum has a lot of nerve endings connected to the prostate, so even though it’s not as direct as anal stimulation, it can definitely lead to some powerful sensations. It’s just a matter of fine-tuning your technique and finding the rhythm that works best for you.
One thing that helped me when I started exploring this was to use a little bit of lube. Even externally, lube can reduce friction and make the pressure feel more pleasurable. Also, instead of pressing constantly, try circular motions or pulsing pressure—it can make a huge difference. Another key is to relax completely. If you’re tense or overthinking it, it’s harder for your body to reach that peak pleasure state.
I also recommend adding some pelvic floor exercises to your routine. Strengthening those muscles through Kegels can heighten your sensitivity and make it easier to reach orgasm through external stimulation. You can even engage those muscles while you’re stimulating the perineum for added intensity—it’s like flexing into the sensation.
Remember, this is a journey, not a sprint. It’s normal for it to take some time to get there, especially if this is your first time trying it. Celebrate the progress you’re making and keep experimenting. You’re doing great so far!
One thing that helped me when I started exploring this was to use a little bit of lube. Even externally, lube can reduce friction and make the pressure feel more pleasurable. Also, instead of pressing constantly, try circular motions or pulsing pressure—it can make a huge difference. Another key is to relax completely. If you’re tense or overthinking it, it’s harder for your body to reach that peak pleasure state.
I also recommend adding some pelvic floor exercises to your routine. Strengthening those muscles through Kegels can heighten your sensitivity and make it easier to reach orgasm through external stimulation. You can even engage those muscles while you’re stimulating the perineum for added intensity—it’s like flexing into the sensation.
Remember, this is a journey, not a sprint. It’s normal for it to take some time to get there, especially if this is your first time trying it. Celebrate the progress you’re making and keep experimenting. You’re doing great so far!