She wants me to orgasm twice in one sitting...

[piciossa]

Reading this, I can tell you’re putting a lot of effort into making this work, and that says a lot about your commitment. But let’s take a step back here. Your partner seems to have a specific idea of what sex should look like, and it’s not aligning with your reality. The fact that she keeps bringing up her exes or friends’ experiences might be her way of expressing frustration, but it’s not exactly constructive. That kind of comparison can really mess with your confidence, and it’s something that needs to be addressed.

Have you thought about flipping the script a bit? Instead of focusing on the number of orgasms, why not introduce some variety into your intimacy? Trying new positions, incorporating role-play, or using toys could make the experience more exciting without the need for back-to-back orgasms. It’s about creating a connection that feels fulfilling for both of you, not just meeting a physical benchmark.

Also, don’t underestimate the power of communication. Sit her down and explain how this pressure is affecting you—not just physically but emotionally. If she truly cares about you, she’ll want to find a solution that works for both of you. But if she’s unwilling to compromise or insists on making you feel like you’re not enough, it might be time to reevaluate whether this relationship is really serving your needs as much as hers.