She wants me to orgasm twice in one sitting...

[deigo123]

Bro, let’s get real here. Two orgasms in an hour isn’t exactly standard for most men. Sure, there are some guys who can pull it off, but it’s often more the exception than the rule. It sounds like you’re putting in the effort to make this relationship work, especially with how you’ve reduced masturbation and focused more on your connection with her. That’s a big step, and it shows you’re committed. But the way she’s framing this—by bringing up her past partners or her friends’ relationships—feels like unnecessary pressure.

This isn’t about comparing yourself to other guys; it’s about what’s realistic and enjoyable for the two of you. If she values your relationship, she should also value the effort you’re putting in, not just the outcome. One thing that could help is shifting the focus away from just orgasms. There’s so much more to intimacy than just hitting that peak. Explore ways to extend foreplay or incorporate toys into the mix. That way, she still feels satisfied, and you don’t feel like you’re constantly on the clock.

Also, let’s be honest—sex is as much mental as it is physical. The more pressure you’re under, the harder it’s going to be to relax and enjoy the experience. If this starts to feel like a performance instead of an intimate moment, it could seriously impact your relationship long-term. Have that tough conversation now, man. It’s better than letting resentment build up