11-30-2024, 07:13 PM
this whole situation sounds like it’s wearing on you, and I get it. I’ve been there too, where you feel like you should be able to perform a certain way, but your body just won’t cooperate. The pressure to meet that expectation can make everything worse. It’s tough when it’s not just about physical issues but also about the mental side, like feeling anxious about pregnancy or your partner’s expectations.
I had a similar experience, and I found that delaying orgasm wasn’t just about physical issues—it was all tied to stress. When I learned how to reduce the anxiety and just focus on enjoying the experience, things started to change. Taking the pressure off really helped me enjoy the intimacy and not worry about when I would climax.
Also, the conversation with your girlfriend sounds like it could be a major breakthrough. I know it’s hard to open up about such personal struggles, especially with your history, but talking to her could ease a lot of your anxiety. I think you’ll find that the more honest you are, the better the relationship will be. It’s not just about performance but about sharing your experiences and figuring it out together.
Finally, if you haven’t yet, consider seeking professional advice. There’s no shame in seeing a doctor or a therapist. They can help you identify any physical or emotional triggers you might not have even considered.
I had a similar experience, and I found that delaying orgasm wasn’t just about physical issues—it was all tied to stress. When I learned how to reduce the anxiety and just focus on enjoying the experience, things started to change. Taking the pressure off really helped me enjoy the intimacy and not worry about when I would climax.
Also, the conversation with your girlfriend sounds like it could be a major breakthrough. I know it’s hard to open up about such personal struggles, especially with your history, but talking to her could ease a lot of your anxiety. I think you’ll find that the more honest you are, the better the relationship will be. It’s not just about performance but about sharing your experiences and figuring it out together.
Finally, if you haven’t yet, consider seeking professional advice. There’s no shame in seeing a doctor or a therapist. They can help you identify any physical or emotional triggers you might not have even considered.