11-25-2024, 03:01 AM
This is a topic I’ve talked about with friends before, and the general consensus seems to be that it’s all about intensifying the experience. For most women, clitoral stimulation is key to reaching orgasm, and penetration alone doesn’t always hit the right spots. By touching their clit during sex, they’re combining two sensations to create a more powerful experience.
One of my partners explained it to me like this: penetration feels amazing, but the clit is where the magic happens for her. When she touches herself, it’s not because I’m doing anything wrong—it’s just how her body works. In fact, she said it was a compliment because it meant she was so turned on that she wanted to make sure she climaxed.
I’ve also noticed that some women get more aroused by taking an active role in their pleasure. Touching themselves during sex makes them feel more connected to their own body and the experience. For me, it’s a turn-on to see a woman take charge of her pleasure and show me what she likes.
As for the idea that they’re doing it to stay wet, I think that’s less common. Most women produce natural lubrication when they’re aroused, and if they need more, lube is an easy fix. Clitoral stimulation is more about enhancing the sensations and making the experience even more enjoyable. It’s something to embrace, not overanalyze!
One of my partners explained it to me like this: penetration feels amazing, but the clit is where the magic happens for her. When she touches herself, it’s not because I’m doing anything wrong—it’s just how her body works. In fact, she said it was a compliment because it meant she was so turned on that she wanted to make sure she climaxed.
I’ve also noticed that some women get more aroused by taking an active role in their pleasure. Touching themselves during sex makes them feel more connected to their own body and the experience. For me, it’s a turn-on to see a woman take charge of her pleasure and show me what she likes.
As for the idea that they’re doing it to stay wet, I think that’s less common. Most women produce natural lubrication when they’re aroused, and if they need more, lube is an easy fix. Clitoral stimulation is more about enhancing the sensations and making the experience even more enjoyable. It’s something to embrace, not overanalyze!