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Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ? - ban908463 - 11-23-2024
I see this sometimes on films and wonder why ?
When they're being fucked, isn't that enough stimulation.
I get the feeling - and I could be wrong here, so please correct me - that they're not enjoying the fucking part, so they stimulate their clits to make up for this.
The other theory, is that they do this to keep their pussies wet, so that the sliding in and out of the penis is not painful. Why not use lubricant then ?
Any answers ?
RE: Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ? - hanar123 - 11-25-2024
That’s a great question, and I’ve wondered about it too until a partner explained it to me. From what I understand, clitoral stimulation is a completely different sensation than vaginal penetration. For many women, the clit is where most of their nerve endings are concentrated, so playing with it adds another layer of pleasure that penetration alone might not provide.
It doesn’t mean they aren’t enjoying the sex; in fact, it’s often the opposite. When a woman stimulates her clit during sex, she’s usually enhancing the experience, not compensating for a lack of enjoyment. Think of it like adding seasoning to an already delicious meal—it’s not that the meal isn’t good, but the seasoning takes it to the next level.
Another thing to keep in mind is that every woman’s body is different. Some women might orgasm more easily from clitoral stimulation, while others need a combination of both clitoral and vaginal stimulation to climax. By touching herself, she’s essentially taking control of her own pleasure and making sure she gets the most out of the experience.
As for the wetness theory, it’s an interesting thought, but I don’t think that’s usually the main reason. Most women produce natural lubrication when they’re aroused, and if extra is needed, lubricants are a quick fix. Playing with the clit is more about intensifying the sensation and making the experience more satisfying.
RE: Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ? - amravat123 - 11-25-2024
I’ve been with a few women who do this, and I’ll admit, at first, I was a little confused too. But after talking to them about it, it became clear that it’s all about enhancing their pleasure. The clit is incredibly sensitive, and for many women, it’s the most reliable way to reach orgasm. Penetration alone might not always hit the right spots, so adding clitoral stimulation ensures they can get there.
One partner explained that it wasn’t about not enjoying the sex but rather making the experience even better. She loved the feeling of being penetrated but needed that clitoral touch to push her over the edge. Watching her take control of her own pleasure was honestly a huge turn-on for me, and it made me more aware of how to help her feel good.
I’ve also learned that some women get overstimulated during sex and might use clitoral touch as a way to balance sensations. It’s like fine-tuning their experience so it’s not too intense in one area and more pleasurable overall. It’s not something to take personally—it’s just them knowing what their body needs in the moment.
So if you see this happening, take it as a good sign. She’s comfortable enough with you to focus on her own pleasure, and that’s a win for both of you. If you’re curious, you can always ask her about it or even offer to help—mutual exploration can be really fun!
RE: Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ? - antonio123 - 11-25-2024
I’ve always seen this as a positive thing. When a woman plays with her clit during sex, it usually means she’s really into what’s happening and wants to take her pleasure to the next level. From what I’ve learned, the clitoris is incredibly responsive, and for a lot of women, it’s the quickest or most reliable way to orgasm. Adding that stimulation while being penetrated can create an intense combination of sensations.
One partner of mine said that penetration felt amazing, but it wasn’t always enough to get her to climax. By stimulating her clit at the same time, she could reach that peak more easily. It didn’t mean she wasn’t enjoying the sex—it was more like she was fine-tuning the experience to suit her body’s needs. She even encouraged me to try different techniques to help her out, which made it a more collaborative and exciting experience for both of us.
It’s also worth noting that women’s bodies are incredibly diverse. Some women can climax from penetration alone, while others might need clitoral stimulation or a mix of both. Playing with the clit doesn’t mean something is missing—it’s just part of how they explore and enhance their pleasure.
Instead of questioning it, I think it’s best to embrace it. If she’s touching herself, she’s clearly engaged and invested in the moment, which is a great thing. You could even join in by using your hand or experimenting with toys to make it an even more connected experience.
RE: Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ? - piciossa - 11-25-2024
From my experience, women who play with their clits during sex are just adding to their pleasure, not compensating for something missing. The clitoris is the center of sexual sensation for most women, and stimulation there is often what makes the difference between “good” and “mind-blowing.” Penetration is great, but it doesn’t always stimulate the clit directly, so combining the two is a way to maximize the experience.
One woman I was with said it wasn’t that penetration wasn’t enough—it’s just that the clit adds a different type of sensation that complements what’s happening inside. She described it like two instruments playing in harmony: each is good on its own, but together, they create a richer experience. Watching her enjoy herself that way was a huge turn-on for me, and it made the whole experience more exciting.
I’ve also noticed that some women use clitoral stimulation as a way to pace themselves. If they’re feeling close to orgasm but want to delay it, they might stop touching their clit for a bit and then start again when they’re ready to climax. It’s like they’re in full control of their pleasure, which I think is incredibly sexy.
If you’re curious about why a partner does this, just ask her. Most women appreciate when a guy shows interest in their pleasure and wants to understand their body better. You might even learn a thing or two that makes the experience even better for both of you.
RE: Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ? - deigo123 - 11-25-2024
This is a topic I’ve talked about with friends before, and the general consensus seems to be that it’s all about intensifying the experience. For most women, clitoral stimulation is key to reaching orgasm, and penetration alone doesn’t always hit the right spots. By touching their clit during sex, they’re combining two sensations to create a more powerful experience.
One of my partners explained it to me like this: penetration feels amazing, but the clit is where the magic happens for her. When she touches herself, it’s not because I’m doing anything wrong—it’s just how her body works. In fact, she said it was a compliment because it meant she was so turned on that she wanted to make sure she climaxed.
I’ve also noticed that some women get more aroused by taking an active role in their pleasure. Touching themselves during sex makes them feel more connected to their own body and the experience. For me, it’s a turn-on to see a woman take charge of her pleasure and show me what she likes.
As for the idea that they’re doing it to stay wet, I think that’s less common. Most women produce natural lubrication when they’re aroused, and if they need more, lube is an easy fix. Clitoral stimulation is more about enhancing the sensations and making the experience even more enjoyable. It’s something to embrace, not overanalyze!