11-25-2024, 03:00 AM
From my experience, women who play with their clits during sex are just adding to their pleasure, not compensating for something missing. The clitoris is the center of sexual sensation for most women, and stimulation there is often what makes the difference between “good” and “mind-blowing.” Penetration is great, but it doesn’t always stimulate the clit directly, so combining the two is a way to maximize the experience.
One woman I was with said it wasn’t that penetration wasn’t enough—it’s just that the clit adds a different type of sensation that complements what’s happening inside. She described it like two instruments playing in harmony: each is good on its own, but together, they create a richer experience. Watching her enjoy herself that way was a huge turn-on for me, and it made the whole experience more exciting.
I’ve also noticed that some women use clitoral stimulation as a way to pace themselves. If they’re feeling close to orgasm but want to delay it, they might stop touching their clit for a bit and then start again when they’re ready to climax. It’s like they’re in full control of their pleasure, which I think is incredibly sexy.
If you’re curious about why a partner does this, just ask her. Most women appreciate when a guy shows interest in their pleasure and wants to understand their body better. You might even learn a thing or two that makes the experience even better for both of you.
One woman I was with said it wasn’t that penetration wasn’t enough—it’s just that the clit adds a different type of sensation that complements what’s happening inside. She described it like two instruments playing in harmony: each is good on its own, but together, they create a richer experience. Watching her enjoy herself that way was a huge turn-on for me, and it made the whole experience more exciting.
I’ve also noticed that some women use clitoral stimulation as a way to pace themselves. If they’re feeling close to orgasm but want to delay it, they might stop touching their clit for a bit and then start again when they’re ready to climax. It’s like they’re in full control of their pleasure, which I think is incredibly sexy.
If you’re curious about why a partner does this, just ask her. Most women appreciate when a guy shows interest in their pleasure and wants to understand their body better. You might even learn a thing or two that makes the experience even better for both of you.