11-20-2024, 03:35 PM
Man, I totally get where you’re coming from. It takes courage to even acknowledge a fantasy like that, let alone share it. First off, let me say that having fantasies—no matter how "outside the box" they seem—is completely normal. They don’t have to define your sexuality or even dictate what you’d actually want to do in real life. Sometimes, they’re just about exploring a part of yourself that feels exciting or different.
I’ve had similar thoughts that don’t align with my usual preferences. For me, it’s not always about the act itself but the idea of giving up control or experiencing something totally outside my norm. It’s freeing to let your mind wander to those places, even if it’s not something you’d pursue in reality.
What’s interesting is how fantasies like this can help us learn more about ourselves. Maybe it’s the power dynamic or the rawness of the act that appeals to you. Taking the time to unpack those feelings—either on your own or with someone you trust—can give you a better understanding of what makes you tick.
And hey, if you ever feel like you want to explore this more deeply, there are communities and resources out there where you can connect with like-minded people. Just take it slow and prioritize your comfort and safety.
I’ve had similar thoughts that don’t align with my usual preferences. For me, it’s not always about the act itself but the idea of giving up control or experiencing something totally outside my norm. It’s freeing to let your mind wander to those places, even if it’s not something you’d pursue in reality.
What’s interesting is how fantasies like this can help us learn more about ourselves. Maybe it’s the power dynamic or the rawness of the act that appeals to you. Taking the time to unpack those feelings—either on your own or with someone you trust—can give you a better understanding of what makes you tick.
And hey, if you ever feel like you want to explore this more deeply, there are communities and resources out there where you can connect with like-minded people. Just take it slow and prioritize your comfort and safety.