11-18-2024, 02:08 PM
If a guy I knew came to me with that, my first reaction would depend a lot on how he approached it. If it was respectful and not pushy, I’d be more open to considering it. It’s one thing to have a genuine conversation about desires, but it’s another to feel like you’re being cornered or pressured.
That said, I think a lot of guys would secretly be flattered, even if they didn’t admit it. There’s something about being desired that strokes the ego, no matter who it’s coming from. And let’s be real—a good blow job is a good blow job, regardless of who’s giving it.
One of the biggest obstacles is the fear of judgment. What if someone finds out? What if it changes how you see yourself? Those are tough questions to wrestle with, especially if you’ve grown up in an environment where certain behaviors are stigmatized.
At the end of the day, it’s about being honest with yourself. If you’re comfortable with the idea and trust the other person to keep things discreet, there’s no reason not to consider it. Everyone has their own boundaries, and it’s all about finding what works for you.
That said, I think a lot of guys would secretly be flattered, even if they didn’t admit it. There’s something about being desired that strokes the ego, no matter who it’s coming from. And let’s be real—a good blow job is a good blow job, regardless of who’s giving it.
One of the biggest obstacles is the fear of judgment. What if someone finds out? What if it changes how you see yourself? Those are tough questions to wrestle with, especially if you’ve grown up in an environment where certain behaviors are stigmatized.
At the end of the day, it’s about being honest with yourself. If you’re comfortable with the idea and trust the other person to keep things discreet, there’s no reason not to consider it. Everyone has their own boundaries, and it’s all about finding what works for you.