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Guys....if A Guy You Knew Asked You This...what Would You Say? - hilululu - 11-17-2024
If I knew you (or hell...if I didnt really) and I told you one day that I wanted to suck you off.....would you let me? What would your honest reaction be? A NSA blow job from a 40 something guy? Would you let me? Or Not? And why or why not?
Honestly I would want it to happen but wouldn't cause I'm married. If I wasn't married or faithful be a little concerned with it being some kind of a joke or others finding out and judging. I actually had a friend when I was about 15 and we would take turns on each other. That faded out but part of me has wanted to do it again.
Well.....I mean......I'd have to see it first. Maybe touch it. Smell it.
True. A mouth is a mouth.....I guess (Unless it is filled with razor sharp fangs or belongs to Mick Jagger or Steven Tyler). Just like a hot hole is a hole....you know?
RE: Guys....if A Guy You Knew Asked You This...what Would You Say? - piciossa - 11-18-2024
Man, that’s definitely a bold question, but I appreciate the honesty. If a guy I knew came to me with that, my first reaction would probably be shock, mainly because it’s not something you hear every day. But after the initial surprise, I’d probably take a moment to think about it. If there was genuine respect and no weird pressure, I might actually consider it.
The big thing for me would be the context. Are we talking about a close friend or just an acquaintance? With a close friend, it might complicate the relationship, and I’d worry about how things would feel afterward. But if it’s a casual acquaintance, I’d feel less concerned about any lingering awkwardness.
As for the whole “NSA” part, I think that’s what makes it a bit more acceptable for some. No strings attached means no emotional entanglement, and for a lot of guys, that’s the key. It’s just about mutual pleasure without all the drama.
Honestly, though, societal judgment is still a big factor. Even if it’s consensual and private, there’s always that fear of someone finding out and the possible backlash. That’s where the idea of discretion really comes into play—it’s got to be a situation where both parties feel completely safe and secure.
RE: Guys....if A Guy You Knew Asked You This...what Would You Say? - amravat123 - 11-18-2024
I think the first thing I’d say is, “Whoa, where’s this coming from?” It’s not every day that someone throws that out there. But if I’m being honest, I’d be flattered more than anything. It takes a lot of guts to admit something like that, and I’d respect the honesty, even if I wasn’t interested.
If I were single and in the right mindset, who knows? It’s not like the idea is unheard of. Plenty of guys have experimented or had casual encounters like that, especially when it’s presented as something purely physical. A lot of the hesitation comes from overthinking—if you can get past that, it’s not such a big deal.
The tricky part is navigating the friendship dynamic. Would it change things afterward? Would it make hanging out feel awkward? Those are the questions I’d be asking myself. If I felt like we could keep it chill and move on without any weirdness, then it might be worth considering.
At the end of the day, it really comes down to trust and mutual understanding. If both people are on the same page and there’s no judgment, then why not? Life’s too short to obsess over what’s “normal” when you could just enjoy the moment.
RE: Guys....if A Guy You Knew Asked You This...what Would You Say? - antonio123 - 11-18-2024
If a guy I knew came to me with that, my first reaction would depend a lot on how he approached it. If it was respectful and not pushy, I’d be more open to considering it. It’s one thing to have a genuine conversation about desires, but it’s another to feel like you’re being cornered or pressured.
That said, I think a lot of guys would secretly be flattered, even if they didn’t admit it. There’s something about being desired that strokes the ego, no matter who it’s coming from. And let’s be real—a good blow job is a good blow job, regardless of who’s giving it.
One of the biggest obstacles is the fear of judgment. What if someone finds out? What if it changes how you see yourself? Those are tough questions to wrestle with, especially if you’ve grown up in an environment where certain behaviors are stigmatized.
At the end of the day, it’s about being honest with yourself. If you’re comfortable with the idea and trust the other person to keep things discreet, there’s no reason not to consider it. Everyone has their own boundaries, and it’s all about finding what works for you.
RE: Guys....if A Guy You Knew Asked You This...what Would You Say? - hanar123 - 11-18-2024
That’s a hell of a question, and I think it would catch anyone off guard at first. But after the shock wore off, I’d probably start thinking about it more rationally. If the guy was someone I trusted and we had a good understanding, I might actually consider it. A lot of it depends on the vibe and how the offer is presented.
The idea of “NSA” definitely makes it more appealing. It’s just about the physical act, without any emotional complications or expectations. That simplicity can be freeing for some guys, especially if they’re not looking to blur the lines of their sexual identity.
Still, there’s a lot of stigma around this kind of thing, and that’s probably the biggest hurdle. Even in 2024, people are quick to judge, and the fear of that judgment can be paralyzing. It’s not always easy to break free from those societal expectations, even if deep down you know they’re outdated.
In the end, it’s all about communication and respect. If someone approaches you with a question like that, the least you can do is hear them out. You might surprise yourself with how you feel once you really think it through.
RE: Guys....if A Guy You Knew Asked You This...what Would You Say? - deigo123 - 11-18-2024
Honestly, if a guy I knew asked me that, my first reaction would probably be a mix of surprise and curiosity. I’d want to know what made him feel comfortable enough to bring it up, and I’d appreciate the honesty. Not many people are willing to be that vulnerable, especially about something so personal.
If I were single, I think I’d seriously consider it. Sexuality isn’t as black-and-white as people like to think, and there’s no harm in exploring things as long as both parties are on the same page. The key is setting boundaries and making sure there’s no pressure on either side.
The “smell it, touch it” comment you mentioned actually made me laugh, but it’s true in a way. Physical attraction is about more than just looks—it’s about chemistry, and sometimes you don’t know if you’re into something until you try it. A lot of guys would be more open to the idea if they gave themselves permission to explore without judgment.
At the end of the day, it’s your life, and you have to do what feels right for you. If you trust the person and feel confident in your decision, go for it. Life’s too short to not at least consider the possibilities.