11-18-2024, 02:07 PM
I think the first thing I’d say is, “Whoa, where’s this coming from?” It’s not every day that someone throws that out there. But if I’m being honest, I’d be flattered more than anything. It takes a lot of guts to admit something like that, and I’d respect the honesty, even if I wasn’t interested.
If I were single and in the right mindset, who knows? It’s not like the idea is unheard of. Plenty of guys have experimented or had casual encounters like that, especially when it’s presented as something purely physical. A lot of the hesitation comes from overthinking—if you can get past that, it’s not such a big deal.
The tricky part is navigating the friendship dynamic. Would it change things afterward? Would it make hanging out feel awkward? Those are the questions I’d be asking myself. If I felt like we could keep it chill and move on without any weirdness, then it might be worth considering.
At the end of the day, it really comes down to trust and mutual understanding. If both people are on the same page and there’s no judgment, then why not? Life’s too short to obsess over what’s “normal” when you could just enjoy the moment.
If I were single and in the right mindset, who knows? It’s not like the idea is unheard of. Plenty of guys have experimented or had casual encounters like that, especially when it’s presented as something purely physical. A lot of the hesitation comes from overthinking—if you can get past that, it’s not such a big deal.
The tricky part is navigating the friendship dynamic. Would it change things afterward? Would it make hanging out feel awkward? Those are the questions I’d be asking myself. If I felt like we could keep it chill and move on without any weirdness, then it might be worth considering.
At the end of the day, it really comes down to trust and mutual understanding. If both people are on the same page and there’s no judgment, then why not? Life’s too short to obsess over what’s “normal” when you could just enjoy the moment.