11-18-2024, 02:07 PM
Man, that’s definitely a bold question, but I appreciate the honesty. If a guy I knew came to me with that, my first reaction would probably be shock, mainly because it’s not something you hear every day. But after the initial surprise, I’d probably take a moment to think about it. If there was genuine respect and no weird pressure, I might actually consider it.
The big thing for me would be the context. Are we talking about a close friend or just an acquaintance? With a close friend, it might complicate the relationship, and I’d worry about how things would feel afterward. But if it’s a casual acquaintance, I’d feel less concerned about any lingering awkwardness.
As for the whole “NSA” part, I think that’s what makes it a bit more acceptable for some. No strings attached means no emotional entanglement, and for a lot of guys, that’s the key. It’s just about mutual pleasure without all the drama.
Honestly, though, societal judgment is still a big factor. Even if it’s consensual and private, there’s always that fear of someone finding out and the possible backlash. That’s where the idea of discretion really comes into play—it’s got to be a situation where both parties feel completely safe and secure.
The big thing for me would be the context. Are we talking about a close friend or just an acquaintance? With a close friend, it might complicate the relationship, and I’d worry about how things would feel afterward. But if it’s a casual acquaintance, I’d feel less concerned about any lingering awkwardness.
As for the whole “NSA” part, I think that’s what makes it a bit more acceptable for some. No strings attached means no emotional entanglement, and for a lot of guys, that’s the key. It’s just about mutual pleasure without all the drama.
Honestly, though, societal judgment is still a big factor. Even if it’s consensual and private, there’s always that fear of someone finding out and the possible backlash. That’s where the idea of discretion really comes into play—it’s got to be a situation where both parties feel completely safe and secure.