Intimacy with a Man Who’s Had His Prostate Removed: What to Expect

[piciossa]

I’ve been in a relationship with a man who had his prostate removed, and it’s actually deepened our connection. What you’re describing is similar to our experience. There’s still plenty of pleasure, and although it doesn’t involve ejaculation, he feels very satisfied. It’s a bit different visually, but focusing on his reactions and knowing he’s happy can make the experience feel just as fulfilling for both of you.

We found that exploring other forms of physical closeness, like cuddling, oral stimulation, and taking our time with everything, allowed us to feel more connected. Without the expectation of ejaculation, we could just enjoy the experience fully. It became less about reaching a particular “end” and more about appreciating every moment, which felt incredibly liberating.

It’s also been important for us to talk about how each of us is feeling throughout this adjustment. He was open with me about his experiences, and I reassured him that I valued our time together no matter what. Knowing he felt comfortable allowed us both to relax and find our own rhythm.

Your attitude shows you’re really committed to making this work in a loving way, and that’s honestly the most important part. With communication and trust, intimacy will only get stronger, and the bond you’re building will make every experience more meaningful. Embrace this new chapter—it sounds like you’re both well on your way to a happy, connected relationship!