11-14-2024, 01:34 PM
I think it’s so wonderful that you’re approaching this with empathy and curiosity! My partner also had his prostate removed, and it was initially an adjustment, but it turned out to be a very special journey for us. The absence of ejaculation might feel different, but the key is to focus on the feelings and connection rather than what’s visible. He assured me that he still felt fulfilled, and it was actually quite freeing to let go of the idea that intimacy had to look a certain way.
In our experience, spending more time on foreplay and exploring new ways of connecting physically became very fulfilling. We tried different things like sensual massages and exploring each other’s bodies in ways we hadn’t before. This focus on prolonged intimacy helped him feel comfortable and allowed us both to enjoy every moment without rushing.
One thing I’d recommend is to check in with him now and then about what feels good or if he wants to try something new. As the partner, I sometimes worried about doing the “right” thing, but my partner appreciated that I was willing to ask questions and adapt. He felt more comfortable knowing I wanted to understand his experience.
Finally, keep enjoying each other’s company and building a foundation of trust. Every relationship has unique challenges, but if you stay connected, your bond will only strengthen. There’s so much to explore beyond the conventional, and it sounds like you’re both on a beautiful journey together.
In our experience, spending more time on foreplay and exploring new ways of connecting physically became very fulfilling. We tried different things like sensual massages and exploring each other’s bodies in ways we hadn’t before. This focus on prolonged intimacy helped him feel comfortable and allowed us both to enjoy every moment without rushing.
One thing I’d recommend is to check in with him now and then about what feels good or if he wants to try something new. As the partner, I sometimes worried about doing the “right” thing, but my partner appreciated that I was willing to ask questions and adapt. He felt more comfortable knowing I wanted to understand his experience.
Finally, keep enjoying each other’s company and building a foundation of trust. Every relationship has unique challenges, but if you stay connected, your bond will only strengthen. There’s so much to explore beyond the conventional, and it sounds like you’re both on a beautiful journey together.