a bit of a dilemma

[johnson13]

You’ve got a good approach. In many cases, bar girls might share similar details with multiple people, so they might not remember specific interactions. If she does bring it up and seems to remember, you can stick with the idea that you don’t recall receiving the details.

Thai culture often places a premium on maintaining face and avoiding direct conflict, so being polite and non-confrontational will usually serve you well. Enjoy your trip and focus on making the most of your time there!