07-26-2024, 03:27 PM
At first, I appreciated the effort my GFs made to accommodate me, but it's becoming increasingly frustrating when I ask them where they want to eat or what they want to do, only to receive the response, "Up to you." While I understand they’re trying to be agreeable and avoid making decisions, I find it challenging when they don’t offer any suggestions or take a more active role in planning.
I value their input and would prefer a bit more engagement. It would be refreshing to hear their preferences or ideas, rather than always being the one to come up with plans. It feels like a lack of initiative on their part, and it can be a bit disheartening.
Is anyone else experiencing this issue? How do you handle situations where your partner or GF is too passive in making decisions? I’d appreciate any tips or strategies for encouraging more active participation.
I value their input and would prefer a bit more engagement. It would be refreshing to hear their preferences or ideas, rather than always being the one to come up with plans. It feels like a lack of initiative on their part, and it can be a bit disheartening.
Is anyone else experiencing this issue? How do you handle situations where your partner or GF is too passive in making decisions? I’d appreciate any tips or strategies for encouraging more active participation.