07-26-2024, 03:19 PM
OK so I'm relatively new to BKK, just back from fourth trip. Have BF several BG's during my trips, some good, some not so good. One girl though I have spend a few days with each time that I'm rather fond of, (NOT love btw). Met her on my second visit and took her out a couple of times, met her friends, went dancing in a luktueng bar and generally had a great time. Third visit looked her up again, again went out and had a good time and took her and her son (4) out for the day on my day off. Last night she got very drunk (very!) and was sobbing as she said she could not afford to pay the school for her son and she would have to send him to her Mothers as it was free. Alarm bells rang at this point, but, to my surprise she took me to the school the next day before I left and I yes, I did pay (only 1,200 baht a month)for a few months directly to the lady in charge. The last time I visited, I stayed a couple of nights in her apartment but then left (too damn hot for me). I also met her younger brother who was fine until he got drunk and demanded I give him 1,000 baht as we were leaving the club. This triggered a row between them, she shouted, cried and hit him in the chest a few times, I paid him and got us both out asap. Next day when I was leaving I paid her 5,000 (3 days, not bad), she insisted on giving me 1,000 back and said she was "ashamed" of her brother. I did though again go to the school and pay the fees for the rest of the year.
Since then, I do call her from time to time, she does not claim she is "waiting for me" or "no go customer", in fact she is very open about it and tells me when its been a bad week or when she she has had a "good" weekend and how much she has made. She does say though that she would rather not go with customers, I suppose if money was not in the equation not many would, but she does not ask me to "sponsor" her. However, my question is am I being sucked slowly in (this is all over an 18 month period) as I am going back in May, and if so, what should I look out for, or do you think she is actually being quite straight up with me. I know many are highly cynical about BG's from experience, but surely some are just open and honest? So, what in your experience should set off the alarm bells (not had any stories of sick family members/buffalo etc). Don't think she has any sponsors as she has no idea how to use a computer/email and can't even deal with text messages and doesn't have a bank account.
Since then, I do call her from time to time, she does not claim she is "waiting for me" or "no go customer", in fact she is very open about it and tells me when its been a bad week or when she she has had a "good" weekend and how much she has made. She does say though that she would rather not go with customers, I suppose if money was not in the equation not many would, but she does not ask me to "sponsor" her. However, my question is am I being sucked slowly in (this is all over an 18 month period) as I am going back in May, and if so, what should I look out for, or do you think she is actually being quite straight up with me. I know many are highly cynical about BG's from experience, but surely some are just open and honest? So, what in your experience should set off the alarm bells (not had any stories of sick family members/buffalo etc). Don't think she has any sponsors as she has no idea how to use a computer/email and can't even deal with text messages and doesn't have a bank account.