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What to look out for - aiden15632 - 07-26-2024
OK so I'm relatively new to BKK, just back from fourth trip. Have BF several BG's during my trips, some good, some not so good. One girl though I have spend a few days with each time that I'm rather fond of, (NOT love btw). Met her on my second visit and took her out a couple of times, met her friends, went dancing in a luktueng bar and generally had a great time. Third visit looked her up again, again went out and had a good time and took her and her son (4) out for the day on my day off. Last night she got very drunk (very!) and was sobbing as she said she could not afford to pay the school for her son and she would have to send him to her Mothers as it was free. Alarm bells rang at this point, but, to my surprise she took me to the school the next day before I left and I yes, I did pay (only 1,200 baht a month)for a few months directly to the lady in charge. The last time I visited, I stayed a couple of nights in her apartment but then left (too damn hot for me). I also met her younger brother who was fine until he got drunk and demanded I give him 1,000 baht as we were leaving the club. This triggered a row between them, she shouted, cried and hit him in the chest a few times, I paid him and got us both out asap. Next day when I was leaving I paid her 5,000 (3 days, not bad), she insisted on giving me 1,000 back and said she was "ashamed" of her brother. I did though again go to the school and pay the fees for the rest of the year.
Since then, I do call her from time to time, she does not claim she is "waiting for me" or "no go customer", in fact she is very open about it and tells me when its been a bad week or when she she has had a "good" weekend and how much she has made. She does say though that she would rather not go with customers, I suppose if money was not in the equation not many would, but she does not ask me to "sponsor" her. However, my question is am I being sucked slowly in (this is all over an 18 month period) as I am going back in May, and if so, what should I look out for, or do you think she is actually being quite straight up with me. I know many are highly cynical about BG's from experience, but surely some are just open and honest? So, what in your experience should set off the alarm bells (not had any stories of sick family members/buffalo etc). Don't think she has any sponsors as she has no idea how to use a computer/email and can't even deal with text messages and doesn't have a bank account.
RE: What to look out for - daniel74 - 07-26-2024
Hey ,I'm about to join you. I almost can feel you pain I'm still having a questionable relationship with one who was a freelancer. She is wonderful especially the 3 weeks I was with her in Pattaya.But as soon as I left the language barrier started. And to top it off I think she's being coached by her friend Jinny Thailand is her friends name I looked on a Instant message chat room .Jinny had more then 500 friends 75% are Arabs. My girl it seemed at the time was very sweet and innocent. She never asked for anythinh. But its like pulling teeth trying to get her to answer all my emails. Bla Bla.
May be can PM eachother I have more stories.
RE: What to look out for - daniel74 - 07-26-2024
She has no experience with computers or email and struggles with text messages. She also doesn’t have a bank account.
Mate, it sounds like she has a few things to learn. I hope you’re entering into a good relationship with her. Just so you know, many girls in Thailand use local internet shops where staff handle their emails, receive and send money, and manage communication with foreigners. Some foreigners still send cash in envelopes or use Western Union, so a bank account isn’t always necessary. I just wanted to share this information with you.
RE: What to look out for - johnson13 - 07-26-2024
i actually share a girl with a thai bf - is an odd situation really - he doesnt think about me and i dont think about him - he tried to force the issue for her to get rid of me about 3 months ago on her birthday but she said no - she likes it as the thai bf treats her much better with me around - he does seem like a good guy which is rare also - i have met him twice which was awkward but we both didnt make a scene - if she wasnt so good in bed i wouldnt bother but she is a real vixen!!! he is getting ready to ask her to marry him and has discussed sinsod with the family - 500,000 baht which i thought was high given the situation!!! surprisingly her parent like me also and refer to me as her farang boyfriend when i get introduced - strange how life works!!!
RE: What to look out for - shant234 - 07-26-2024
unbelivable....thai forms all over warn about guys like you.......a bit of hot pussy and mealt...anything out of a bar is off limits, just pure fun...you know there r plenty of decent thai women looking for a relationship with a farang but they not work in a bar..dont any of you dick heads ever look at the girl..what she does and her family...to concider as a life partner? isnt that what you look for in a girl from ur own country?....if you dont then thats were you go wrong...i really cant belive the amount of dum ass guys who fall for sweet talking pussy.