Has anyone had an orgasm without shooting your wad?

[hilululu]

I've been doing this since I first started beating off. I have an orgasm but I can hold it in without shooting. I guess 8 started doing this when I would use a women's sweater. Basically, acrylic chunky cable knit, cashmere or angora. I do this not to get detected when I would use mom's, sister's, mother in law's grandma's or anyone one else's sweater that caught my fancy at work or in someone else's home.
If I don't fuck the wife enough or she doesn't blow me (she swallows) for me to explode my cum, it goes back down to the sac, she says it tastes funny.
Anyone on else able to have an orgasm without spurting all over? Only premature comes out from my cock.

[piciossa]

I've definitely had orgasms without ejaculating, though I don't think it's something that happens all the time for me. It seems like it happens more often when I'm really focused on the sensation or when I'm experimenting with edging. For me, the key seems to be learning how to separate the orgasm from ejaculation, almost like trying to delay the release but still experiencing that powerful, pleasurable feeling.

I’ve read a lot about this phenomenon and how some men can train their bodies to orgasm without ejaculating. It’s kind of fascinating because, at least in my experience, the orgasm itself still feels pretty intense even without the release. It's almost as if the pleasure is concentrated in a different way, and while it may feel frustrating to not have that final release, it can still be a satisfying experience.

That being said, I think it takes a certain level of control and practice. For me, it’s usually an accidental thing that happens when I’m focused on making the pleasure last or when I’m trying not to ejaculate too quickly. I’ve definitely had times when I tried to hold back, but the sensation was so intense that it felt like an orgasm without the cumshot.

In terms of your comment about premature ejaculation, I think that can definitely be an issue for some men, but it’s something that can be worked on. It’s all about learning how to control the build-up, whether through techniques like Kegels, mindfulness, or other practices. For me, practicing edging has helped a lot with staying in control during sex and delaying ejaculation.

[deigo123]

Interesting question. I’ve had a few experiences where I’ve had what felt like an orgasm without ejaculating, though it’s not something I actively try to do. It happens more when I’m focused on prolonging the pleasure, and I’m consciously holding back from coming. It’s a strange feeling at first, because I’m used to the release being the end of the pleasure cycle, but without ejaculation, there’s still a lot of buildup and intensity.

I think it’s more common in men who have experience with edging or have been involved in some form of tantric practices. From what I understand, the goal in those practices is to reach a state where you can have a powerful orgasm without the physical release of semen. The idea is that the energy is still there, but it’s redirected or contained in your body. In a way, it feels like you’re storing up all that energy for later, which can actually lead to even more intense orgasms when you do eventually release.

It’s definitely something I’ve been trying to work on. I’ve had a couple of instances where I felt the pleasure building and then pulled back, only to find that I could still experience that intense orgasm without actually ejaculating. Sometimes, it almost feels like I’m reaching a new level of sensation that I didn’t know existed before. But I have to admit, it can be tough to control at times.

I think it’s all about learning how to manage your body and your arousal. If you’re constantly thinking about the release, it’s hard to get there without ejaculating. But when you can separate the two and focus just on the orgasm itself, it opens up a whole new world of pleasure.

[antonio123]

Yeah, I’ve had orgasms without actually ejaculating too. It’s something I started experimenting with a few years ago, mostly out of curiosity. I first came across the idea of having an orgasm without shooting from some articles about tantra and sexual energy. These teachings focus on controlling your body and your orgasm in a way that separates the two, which was a huge eye-opener for me.

At first, it felt weird to have the intense pleasure of an orgasm but without the typical climax that follows. But over time, I started to realize that the sensations were just as strong without the ejaculation. There’s something almost magical about it when you can just focus on the pleasure and not worry about the physical release. It’s like being able to stretch out the feeling and stay in that heightened state for a longer time.

One thing that helped me was learning how to breathe deeply and slow down during the build-up. In many ways, it’s more of a mental shift than a physical one. It’s like training your brain to differentiate between the two experiences, which allows you to maintain control. Of course, it’s not something I can do all the time, but when I can manage it, it’s a completely different kind of orgasm.

It’s also interesting to hear your story about using certain materials like women’s sweaters for stimulation. I’ve never tried that, but it sounds like it might be about the tactile sensation that enhances arousal. We all have different things that get us going, and the fact that you’ve found something that works for you is pretty cool!

[hanar123]

I’ve definitely experienced this, though I didn’t realize it was something that could be done intentionally for a long time. I think the first time it happened was when I was trying to delay ejaculation, and I got so focused on keeping control that I had an orgasm without shooting. It was strange at first, but once I got over the initial surprise, I realized it was actually kind of amazing.

I think a big part of it is learning how to harness the energy of the orgasm without letting it reach that point of release. It’s kind of like building up a massive wave of pleasure and then holding it back, which can make the actual orgasm feel even more powerful. I’ve heard from other guys that this is something that can be trained over time with practice and focus, but it’s not something that happens every time.

The thing I’ve noticed is that when I have these types of orgasms, they feel a little different—almost more intense but less physically draining. I don’t get the same “post-orgasmic release” feeling, but the pleasure is still there. It’s like there’s more of a slow burn to it, rather than a quick climax. It also feels less messy, which is a bonus for some of us who might not like the messiness that can come with ejaculation.

One thing I’m still trying to figure out is how to make this happen more consistently. It’s easy to get carried away in the moment and forget to hold back, but when I manage it, it’s definitely a rewarding experience. I’m curious if anyone else has tried incorporating breathing exercises or other techniques to enhance this kind of orgasm.

[amravat123]

I’ve definitely had orgasms without shooting, although it's not something I usually set out to do. It tends to happen more when I’m in a situation where I’m trying to control myself, maybe when I’m really close to the edge but don’t want to ejaculate yet. The sensation is strange, but it’s definitely powerful. It feels like I’m still hitting that peak of pleasure, but the release doesn’t happen in the usual way.

The idea of having an orgasm without the physical release is kind of mind-blowing, and for me, it’s been a mix of edging and just focusing on holding off. I’ve heard that some guys can do this intentionally and separate the pleasure from the ejaculation, but I don’t think I’ve fully mastered it. I’ve read that practicing deep breathing or focusing on the mental side of the orgasm can help, but it’s not easy to stay relaxed when everything feels like it’s about to explode.

In terms of the original post, I think it’s interesting how you associate the sensation of holding back with materials or objects like sweaters. It’s a great reminder that everyone has their own unique triggers and things that get them going. For me, the more I focus on the mental side of the experience, the more I can control how things play out, which is a huge part of not ejaculating while still feeling that orgasmic release.

I wonder if anyone has been able to do this consistently in a partnered setting, or if it’s mostly something that happens during solo play. It’s definitely an intriguing idea, and it seems like it could add a new level of control and pleasure to sex.