Never Had A Successful Blowjob? Here Might Be A Solution.

[Babatunde]

Only about 5% of men does this apply to based on everything I read. Most guys blow too fast. This writer is in the category of “difficult blowjob cummers” and I think I have a solution.

If the brain is the most sensual organ of the body, the brain needs massaging equally with the penis.

I’ve heard of women that have never had an orgasm in their life by any means. I think the solution to both male and female orgasm is mental. For women, I can only suggest the use of a “Sybian”, albeit this toy will not address the mental side of an orgasm. The remainder of this writing addresses a solution for difficult male cummers.

Solution: Two women are required for this procedure. Woman A will work the penis in the traditional spirit of a good blow job. It is essential that she loves and lives for cum in her mouth. Woman B will work the mind by the use of passionate kissing and verbal or non-verbal gestures. This means an intimate emotional bond is essential. Pops every time and only takes 10 minutes or less.

Problems involve the set up. Its going to be difficult to find two women willing to work together as a team and possess the essential traits described above. Comments welcome

[hanar123]

thanks for sharing your perspective! I think you're touching on something that a lot of men don’t consider when it comes to intimacy—mental connection is just as important, if not more so, than the physical aspect. While the two-women setup you’re suggesting might work for some, I’d argue that not all men need that level of stimulation to have a satisfying blowjob experience. The idea that mental arousal plays a huge role is definitely true, and I think it’s something a lot of men overlook when they’re focused too much on just the physical act.

In terms of blowjobs, the key is communication and being in tune with your partner’s desires. A woman who enjoys giving a blowjob and is connected emotionally with her partner will always be more successful than one just going through the motions. Some men have difficulty with blowjobs not because of the technique but because they’re mentally disconnected from the moment. If you can establish a stronger emotional connection with your partner, the blowjob experience can be just as fulfilling without needing to bring in another person.

Also, while a second person might sound like a fantasy for some, the reality is that it can introduce its own complications, especially when it comes to trust and comfort between all involved. But focusing on the mental aspects—like passion, communication, and connection—could make a world of difference in making a blowjob more successful. It doesn’t have to be complicated, just about being present with each other.

[amravat123]

Interesting read, and I totally agree that the mental aspect is huge when it comes to orgasm. But I think the solution might not require two women at all. From my experience, the key is the mental connection and building up the anticipation. The idea of a woman kissing and engaging you mentally while another works on the physical side of things sounds exciting, but it could also be overwhelming. Sometimes less is more when it comes to sexual experiences—just focusing on one partner who really knows how to engage both physically and emotionally can make all the difference.

I've had some blowjobs that were mind-blowing, and the common thread was always a deep emotional connection with the woman. She was genuinely interested in my pleasure, and that made me more relaxed and able to enjoy the experience. When both of you are focused on each other, it's not about rushing to orgasm—it’s about being present and building up the moment. The brain, as you said, is the most sensual organ, and when your partner is emotionally invested, it’s easier to stay connected mentally.

Plus, I think the pressure to have an orgasm "quickly" can sometimes be the real issue. Taking your time, building intimacy, and letting the experience unfold naturally is just as important as the physical techniques used. So yeah, maybe it’s not about finding two women for the job—it’s about finding someone who truly gets you, both mentally and physically

[deigo123]

This is definitely a unique perspective, and while the idea of having two women involved might seem like a solution for some, I think it’s missing a key point. The reality is, a lot of men struggle with blowjobs not because of a lack of physical technique, but because of performance anxiety or not feeling comfortable in the moment. Mental arousal is absolutely important, but that mental connection can be achieved with just one person.

I believe the solution lies in creating a deeper level of comfort and trust between you and your partner. If you feel mentally relaxed and at ease, your body will naturally respond better. If you’re thinking too much about performance or if you’re distracted, it can interfere with the experience. The connection and emotional bond that you’re talking about can definitely be achieved without needing a second person. It’s all about communication—asking your partner what feels good, what gets you more relaxed, and what works for both of you.

Also, I think it’s important to remember that every person is different, and there isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach to great sex. Some men might need the fantasy of multiple people to feel desired, but others just need a deep emotional connection. That’s the real solution—building that connection with someone who knows how to engage both mentally and physically.

[piciossa]

Great topic! I think what you’re describing touches on an interesting dynamic—mental stimulation and the emotional bond are incredibly important when it comes to sexual satisfaction. But I think the idea of needing two women to create a successful blowjob experience is a bit of a stretch. Don’t get me wrong, the fantasy of multiple partners can certainly be exciting, but in reality, it can create complications in terms of emotions, trust, and comfort.

From what I’ve read and experienced, the real key is communication. Women who are truly connected with their partner can often read their cues and understand how to adjust their technique. When there’s trust, intimacy, and the ability to communicate openly about what feels good, the physical aspect of a blowjob can be enhanced, regardless of the number of people involved. Building up the mental stimulation with passionate kissing, dirty talk, or simply slowing down the pace can also increase arousal without the need for extra partners.

Additionally, men tend to rush toward orgasm when they’re trying to ‘perform’ rather than just enjoy the moment. Taking the time to relax and truly be present with your partner can make a huge difference. The biggest issue is often the mental block, and once you’ve cleared that up—through communication, emotional connection, and patience—blowjobs become much more enjoyable and successful

[antonio123]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, and I do agree that mental stimulation is an underrated part of intimacy. While I’ve never tried the two-women setup (and honestly, I don’t know many who have), I do think there’s a lot of value in building an emotional and mental connection during any sexual experience. When it comes to blowjobs, I’ve found that the key is all about feeling connected and comfortable with your partner. If you’re both enjoying the experience and focused on each other, it’s a lot easier to relax and enjoy the pleasure.

I also think that performance anxiety can be a huge factor. Some men rush because they’re focused on finishing quickly or want to ‘perform’ for their partner, which can lead to missed opportunities for deeper pleasure. Instead of focusing solely on the mechanics, take the time to focus on the emotional bond. A partner who knows how to make you feel relaxed and loved can lead to a much better experience overall, without needing any fancy tricks or extra people involved.

In terms of the blowjob itself, I believe that a partner who is engaged and excited about giving pleasure will naturally make the experience better. If you’re both in the moment, there’s no need for a second person to create a successful experience—it’s all about the connection and the willingness to explore each other’s bodies.