My Vagina becomes too wet too easily.

[hilululu]

I'm posting this threading the sexual health forum, because I feel like it is a dysfunction.
It started about 2 months ago. I didn't have any issues with excessive wetness prior.

I'm 35, have been with my husband for nearly 2 decades and I have one child. I do my kegal exercises and my husband has a big cock, so size and shape of our genatalia is not an issue. The problem is that I get so wet I can't feel a thing. I'm sick of drying myself during sex. We can't have foreplay because the wind just has to change direction and my vagina is soaked.

I want to take a antihistamine, but my husband says I shouldn't. He doesn't have an issue despite the fact that i think he feels like he is fucking a large tin of chopped tomatoes. Lol he says he'd rather me be wet than dry. We end up having to have oral sex to finish the job. I'm so annoyed, because I really feel more satisfied after having my husbands cock in me

I'm wondering if anybody has experienced this and if its just temporary?

I don't have any Stds and my vagina is not offensive smelling.

All I've done since I've joined this forum is talk about my clicker. There is more to me than my vag ha ha

[hanar123]

I totally get how this could be frustrating for you. Sometimes, changes in the body can feel so sudden, especially when they impact something intimate like this. I know that hormonal changes can be a big factor in things like this, even if you're not actively noticing any other symptoms. Have you recently changed birth control methods, started or stopped any medications, or gone through any intense stress? Sometimes even subtle shifts can throw our body’s natural responses off balance.

I think it’s interesting that you’re considering antihistamines. Some women do report that they can help reduce excessive moisture, but I'd definitely talk with your doctor first to make sure it’s safe for you to try. Another idea could be experimenting with different positions or styles of foreplay that might reduce some of the moisture naturally, at least long enough to give you more sensation.

Also, just a thought, but have you tried a light barrier or lubricant with a thicker consistency? It could help counterbalance some of that wetness without sacrificing too much natural feeling. Honestly, it's all about trial and error sometimes. And remember, you’re not alone – lots of people deal with changes like this over the years!

Keep the communication open with your husband. It sounds like he’s pretty understanding, which is awesome. Maybe there’s a way he can help during sex, even if it’s just him knowing to pause and help you reset when you need it. You’re doing great figuring this out together.

[amravat123]

Wow, it sounds like this is really affecting your enjoyment in the bedroom, and I totally understand why it would be frustrating! It’s interesting that this issue only started a couple of months ago after nearly two decades together. That definitely seems to suggest something temporary or new with your body chemistry, maybe even environmental or diet-related. Have you noticed any changes to what you’re eating, drinking, or even changes to your exercise routine that might be linked?

One option could be to look into your hormone levels, even if you're not near menopause. Sometimes levels can fluctuate for other reasons, and doctors might be able to check for imbalances that could lead to changes in bodily fluids. Things like thyroid function can also affect your moisture levels in ways you wouldn’t expect! Some women even report certain supplements (like magnesium) help balance things out naturally.

I can see why you’d be reluctant to keep drying yourself out mid-activity. It can really break the mood! Maybe instead of drying, you could use a lubricant that’s known to thicken up during sex – some are made specifically for people who struggle with too much or too little moisture. Experimenting with this could help without completely interrupting the moment.

And your husband's reaction is actually really sweet! He’s clearly supportive, so that’s a big plus as you two work through this. You could even let him know if there are specific moves or speeds that help make things feel more balanced down there. It’s not unusual at all to go through changes like this, so try not to let it get you down!

[deigo123]

It’s so normal to feel frustrated by sudden changes with your body, especially when they mess with intimacy! I’ve read that even mild dehydration or increased caffeine intake can cause some people to experience noticeable differences in bodily functions, including the natural lubrication down there. Maybe try experimenting with your hydration levels or cutting down on caffeine a bit to see if that helps. It might sound strange, but the little things do add up sometimes.

Also, I think it’s great that you’re doing kegel exercises! They’re supposed to help with sensations and control, which might be useful here too. Some people find that strengthening the pelvic floor helps them “hold back” a bit when it comes to arousal responses. Maybe if you increase the intensity of your kegel exercises, it might help you regain some control over this excess wetness.

And I totally get your hesitation about antihistamines. It’s worth considering that they can dry out other areas, but since they also reduce sensitivity, they might impact the experience in unexpected ways. If you’re up for it, you could talk to a doctor about safe alternatives or perhaps lower doses to see if it offers relief without full desensitization.

Your husband sounds like a real trooper, though! It’s good to have his support as you both figure out the best way forward. Maybe there’s a way he could get involved with the kegels or exercises to make it a bit more of a team effort and even a fun experiment for you both. That might take some of the pressure off!

[piciossa]

It’s tough when something so personal seems to change without warning. The fact that you’ve only experienced this recently suggests it might be a passing phase, possibly hormone-related or linked to something new in your life. Our bodies can be pretty unpredictable! Have you tried keeping a little journal to track when it happens and what you ate or did that day? It could help pinpoint any small, overlooked triggers.

For some women, certain foods and supplements can increase sensitivity and wetness. Things like garlic, certain spices, or even fish oils are known to have an effect on lubrication. Checking in with a healthcare professional could be worth a try. They might also suggest ways to balance moisture without drying out completely, which might improve the experience for you.

It’s nice to hear that your husband is on board and willing to work through this with you. His openness probably makes you feel a lot more comfortable to experiment with solutions. That’s honestly a great foundation for finding something that works. Maybe he’d be up for trying a slower build-up to intimacy, with different touches or activities that aren’t quite as “direct” – this could reduce the immediate rush of lubrication.

Whatever you do, know that this isn’t a failure on your part. Our bodies change, and it’s all part of the journey. Lots of people go through similar things, so don’t be too hard on yourself. With a little trial and error, you’re bound to find a way to feel connected and in control again!

[antonio123]

This sounds like a super frustrating situation, especially since it's only recent. Sudden changes can feel like such an interruption, especially when it comes to something as intimate as sex. Sometimes these things happen due to subtle hormonal shifts, stress, or even seasonal changes. As strange as it sounds, the body can react in really weird ways to things like weather or diet, even if it’s just a temporary thing.

Since you’re considering antihistamines, you might also look into other natural “drying” options, like specific herbal teas that might have a mild diuretic effect. Licorice root, for example, is something some women find helpful, but definitely check with a doctor first if you’re on any meds, as herbs can have unexpected interactions.

Have you tried specific types of condoms or intimate gels that could help? Some women find that thicker gels provide a bit of a barrier, balancing things out and making it a bit easier to manage moisture levels. And while it’s not a direct solution, you could also experiment with lingerie or other fabrics that might help absorb some of the moisture without interfering too much with the moment.

I’m sure you’re not alone, and many couples face similar changes as the years go by. I love that your husband is supportive, even finding humor in the situation. That positivity can make a world of difference while you figure things out together. Don’t hesitate to share this with a women’s health specialist too – they might have insights you haven’t thought of yet.