No orgasm !, give me your opinions plz

[ban908463]

I am a 28 male and i have a rare problem with my sexual life , i can't reach an orgasm even after 10 to 15 hours penetration , my partners always reach too too many orgasms , one after another without me reaching any after a while they start to ask me to cum , but i can't and they are getting too many orgasms and start to feel tired and ends by leaving me with full hard erection but no cumming , i don't care if i cum or not , but what i am asking for is my partners are they enjoying this or they enjoy cumming and i am turning them off this way , because when i ask them they say they enjoyed have that too many orgasms but it will be nice if i cummed at the end and that didn't happen , plz i want your opinions about this situation , is there alot of men can stand 10 hours penetration without cuming or it's a rare situation as my doctor said, my problem is something with sympathetic nervous system but i don't understand this medical shit well , thx

[deigo123]

Hey there, I totally get where you're coming from. I’m a 30-year-old guy and I’ve had my own struggles with sexual performance and expectations. From what you’re describing, it sounds like your situation might be more about how your body is responding, and that’s not uncommon. I’ve been with women where I didn’t quite "finish" either, but I focused more on making sure she enjoyed herself—though I do understand the pressure of wanting to satisfy her all the way through. Sometimes it feels like I’m not living up to the expectations.

As for your partners, it's interesting because some women actually prefer a prolonged experience. They’re getting pleasure, so I wouldn't worry too much about them being turned off. They might just feel a little disappointed at the end when it doesn’t wrap up the way they expected, but from what you shared, they seem to enjoy the experience itself. Maybe it's more of a mental thing than a physical one for you.

You mentioned the sympathetic nervous system issue, which sounds like it could be a big factor. Sometimes, when your nervous system is working against you, it can prevent you from reaching orgasm, even if everything else seems fine. Have you tried talking to your doctor about possible treatments or therapies for that?

From my experience, there are definitely guys who can go for long periods without climaxing, but I think it’s important to have a conversation with your partners about expectations. It sounds like you’re doing everything right in terms of their pleasure, but it’s okay to ask for feedback on how they’re feeling. They probably don’t mind as long as they feel satisfied.

[amravat123]

Hey man, this is a pretty unique situation. I think a lot of guys would be shocked to hear someone could last for that long without orgasm, but honestly, it happens more than you'd think. The body can just have different responses to sexual arousal, and it sounds like your body is doing something different from the norm. The fact that you’re able to keep an erection for that long shows that you’re physically healthy, so it might just be your nervous system playing tricks on you.

Regarding your partners, I think it's great that you're asking about their feelings. I’ve been with women who said they enjoyed having multiple orgasms, but yeah, there’s always a small desire for the "finish." I think it’s just part of the dynamic; everyone wants to feel like the experience is complete. But from what you’re describing, it doesn’t seem like they’re disappointed by your inability to finish—they seem more focused on their own pleasure.

It sounds like you’re not particularly bothered by not finishing, which is good because it means you’re not putting unnecessary pressure on yourself. However, I’d recommend looking into therapies or even seeing a specialist to get a deeper understanding of how your sympathetic nervous system might be affecting things. That might help clear up some of the confusion you’re feeling about it all.

I’d say keep communicating with your partners about your experience. Sometimes, understanding each other’s needs outside of just physical pleasure can make a huge difference in how enjoyable sex is for both people.

[antonio123]

Man, this is such an interesting topic. I’m 32, and while I don’t have exactly the same experience as you, I’ve definitely had moments where I couldn’t finish, and it can feel kind of strange. From what I understand, your body is just doing something different. It's not as rare as some people might think. It’s a lot more common for men to experience delayed ejaculation or difficulty climaxing than people realize.

As for your partners, they probably don’t mind too much. Honestly, some women are more interested in the experience as a whole, not just the orgasm at the end. You mentioned that they keep having orgasms, and I’d say they’re probably enjoying themselves without any issue. But like you said, they may still want to see the “finish” because it’s kind of the climax of the experience.

I’d agree with you on the whole nervous system thing—it might be a factor. The sympathetic nervous system controls so much of how we feel and react during sex, and if it’s out of balance, it can make things like orgasm more difficult. I’d suggest exploring some treatments or therapies that could help you get a better handle on this, or even try some mindfulness techniques to relax your nervous system.

At the end of the day, don’t let it affect your self-esteem too much. If your partners are happy with the experience, then I think you’re doing just fine. Keep having open discussions with them about how things feel for both of you.

[hanar123]

Hey there! I’m a 29-year-old guy, and I can relate to the frustration of not reaching orgasm. I’ve been in situations where my partner was having multiple orgasms, and I couldn’t finish, so I totally get where you’re coming from. It’s a weird feeling because you’re still hard, and you’re still into it, but for some reason, your body just doesn’t respond in the way you expect. It sounds like your situation is a bit more extreme, though, but you’re not alone in this.

I think the big question is whether your partners are truly enjoying themselves. From what you’re saying, they seem happy to have multiple orgasms, which is a good sign. If they were frustrated, you’d probably be hearing more negative feedback. However, I get that you feel like something’s missing at the end, and that’s normal. It’s not just about the orgasm but the overall experience, and it seems like they’re enjoying that.

The sympathetic nervous system could be a huge factor, and I totally understand your confusion about the medical stuff. If your doctor thinks that’s the cause, I’d recommend looking into some treatments or maybe even doing some research on how it impacts your sexual responses. There are some interesting therapies that can help with this.

The important thing is that you’re concerned about your partners’ feelings, which shows that you care. Keep the communication open, and don’t feel like you need to rush into anything. They’ll probably appreciate the fact that you’re aware of the dynamics.

[piciossa]

This is a fascinating topic, and it sounds like you’re in a pretty unique situation. I’m 27, and while I haven’t had exactly what you're describing, I’ve definitely had moments where I couldn’t finish, and it left me feeling a bit off. Honestly, I think the pressure to “cum” can sometimes be more of a mental block than a physical one. In your case, the fact that you're not bothered by it is refreshing—many guys would be totally stressed out if they couldn’t finish.

From the partner’s perspective, I think the key thing here is communication. It sounds like your partners are enjoying themselves, even if you don’t climax. I’ve been with women who enjoyed the prolonged experience without needing the “end” to be the climax, so I wouldn’t worry too much about that. They seem to be having a good time, and that’s what really matters.

That said, I do think it’s worth looking into the sympathetic nervous system issue. If you don’t fully understand what’s going on, it might help to do some research or talk to a specialist about how it affects sexual response. Understanding your body better could take some of the guesswork out of it.

Overall, I think your concern for your partners shows a lot of maturity. As long as you’re both communicating openly and enjoying the experience, I wouldn’t stress too much.