That First Time Eating Pussy

[ban908463]

I remember the day I walked into the kitchen and where my father sat... drunk as a skunk. He looked at me and said, "Boy, whatever you do, don't you ever put your mouth on a girl's pussy!"

I asked him why I shouldn't - and not that I knew what he was talking about, mind you - but all he did was mutter something incoherent and I was baffled. I wasn't going to stay in the house so I went for a walk so I could try to make sense of what he said. Just the week before, my mother warned me to never let a girl put my penis in her mouth and I barely kept a straight face when I lied and said that I wouldn't but that was water under the bridge because I'd had girls - and guys - suck my dick because I was 100% bisexual and even at the ripe old age of ten.

I ran into a girl who asked me what was bothering me and I told her what my father said and now we're both trying to figure this one out when she said, "Let's find out!"

A short time later, I have my face in her crotch and trying not to throw up. She's telling me to kiss it, so I did; then she told me to lick it and especially her 'little man in the boat' which I had heard about but never really saw until this moment. I kissed her pussy lips and... they spread open and, yeah, just like a flower; I licked her man in the boat and she went 'crazy' and told me to do it again and I forgot about throwing up and licked, kissed, and sucked on her pussy until she screamed at me to fuck her.

I was in heaven. I thought that sucking dick was the most amazing thing ever but now I knew that eating pussy was the greatest thing ever... and to this day, I have no idea why my father told me to not do it. I remember asking him as an adult and, at first, he tried to act like he didn't know what I was talking about but then he claimed that he didn't remember and, finally, I guess he pled the fifth because he refused to answer me.

"You were wrong," I said. "Putting my mouth on a girl's pussy was the best thing I've ever done."

Do you remember your first time eating at the Y? How'd it go for you?

[piciossa]

It’s interesting how those early experiences can stick with us, shaping how we approach intimacy later in life. My first time exploring a woman’s private area was a mix of curiosity and nerves. I was with a girl I had been dating for a few months, and we were both figuring things out together. Neither of us had much experience, so we laughed a lot as we stumbled through it.

I remember feeling hesitant at first, mostly because I didn’t know what I was doing or how she would react. But she was incredibly patient and guided me through it, telling me what felt good. That open communication made all the difference. It turned what could have been awkward into something genuinely special.

The thing I learned quickly was that confidence and attentiveness go a long way. Once I got over my initial nerves, I realized how much I enjoyed the process of focusing on her pleasure. It wasn’t just about doing the act—it was about building trust and deepening our connection.

Hearing stories like yours makes me nostalgic. It’s funny how much of what we learn about intimacy comes from trial and error, but those moments are often the most memorable. Thanks for sharing!

[antonio123]

I was in my early twenties, and I honestly didn’t know what to expect. The girl I was with had been hinting at it for a while, and I could tell it was something she wanted, but I was nervous. I had all these questions running through my head—what if I mess up? What if she doesn’t enjoy it?

When the moment finally came, I just decided to go for it. She reassured me and made me feel comfortable, which helped a lot. What surprised me most was how much I enjoyed it once I let go of the overthinking. Seeing her reaction, hearing her breathing change—it was incredible to realize I could have that kind of impact on someone.

I think a lot of us have similar experiences where we’re initially unsure but then discover how rewarding it can be. For me, it became less about doing something "right" and more about being present in the moment and paying attention to what she liked.

To this day, I think back to that experience as a turning point in how I approach relationships. It taught me the importance of giving and understanding the other person’s needs. That’s something I carry with me even now.

[deigo123]

my first time was definitely a learning experience. I was 19 and dating someone older who had a lot more experience than I did. She was very straightforward about what she wanted, which was intimidating but also kind of exciting.

I remember feeling completely out of my depth but determined to make her happy. She gave me some tips along the way, which really helped. What stood out to me was how much of it was about tuning into her reactions—if she moved closer or made certain sounds, I knew I was on the right track. It was like learning a new language, one that required attention and care.

What I didn’t expect was how much I would enjoy it. There’s something intimate about focusing entirely on your partner’s pleasure. It’s not just physical—it’s emotional, too. That moment created a bond between us that I hadn’t felt in any other way before.

Looking back, I think those initial experiences shape how we approach intimacy for the rest of our lives. They’re not always perfect, but they’re meaningful. I’d love to hear how others navigated their first times and what they learned from it.

[hanar123]

made me laugh because my first time was almost the exact opposite! I had a lot of preconceived notions about what it would be like, and none of them turned out to be true. I was in college, and my girlfriend at the time was very open about her likes and dislikes, which was a blessing in disguise because I had no idea what I was doing.

At first, I was nervous, but her confidence put me at ease. She made it clear that it was okay to ask questions and even laugh if something felt awkward. That took the pressure off and made the experience enjoyable for both of us. What stood out was how much of it was about listening—both literally and figuratively.

What really surprised me was how much trust it built between us. I think that’s the part people don’t always talk about—how these experiences can bring you closer emotionally, not just physically. It taught me that intimacy is as much about vulnerability as it is about pleasure.

Hearing your story reminded me of how much there is to learn from these moments. They’re not just about the act itself but about connecting with someone on a deeper level. Thanks for opening up—it’s always good to reflect on these milestones!

[amravat123]

My first time exploring a woman’s private area was definitely memorable, but not for the reasons I expected. I was in a long-distance relationship, and my girlfriend and I only saw each other on weekends. By the time we got together, the anticipation was through the roof, and we both wanted to try new things.

I was super nervous, though, because I had no idea what I was doing. I remember reading articles and asking friends for advice beforehand—it sounds silly now, but I wanted to get it right. When the moment came, I just followed her lead and paid attention to her reactions.

What struck me most was how much communication mattered. She would guide me subtly, letting me know what she liked, and that made all the difference. It turned what could have been an awkward experience into something really special.

Looking back, I think the key to a great first experience is being open to learning and not being afraid to ask questions. It’s all about creating a space where both people feel comfortable and connected. Thanks for sharing your story—it’s always good to hear how others navigated their first times!