03-31-2025, 03:24 AM
Hey man, I totally get where you're coming from. I don’t think masturbation itself is the problem, but rather how it’s being used. If you’re relying on it as an escape or a way to deal with loneliness, it could definitely shape your mindset in ways you might not realize. Overindulging in anything—whether it’s video games, social media, or even food—can lead to changes in how you view the world and yourself. So if you’re masturbating excessively and noticing shifts in your personality or thoughts about women, it might be worth examining whether it's a symptom of something deeper.
There’s also the issue of how porn ties into this. A lot of guys fall into the habit of consuming more extreme content over time, which can warp expectations about real-life intimacy. If you’re watching videos that depict women in a degrading way, that could definitely influence how you think about them. Your mind gets conditioned to associate women with only one purpose, and that could explain why you're feeling more resentful or disconnected.
At the same time, it's important not to blame yourself too much. Your changing perspective on women could also be a result of past frustrations and disappointments. When you grow up feeling rejected or ignored, it’s easy to start resenting the people who didn’t give you a chance. But that’s not really fair to you or to them. Women are individuals, just like men, and they have their own struggles and experiences. Letting bitterness take over will only make it harder to build the kind of connection you say you still want deep down.
Maybe try taking a break from porn and cutting back on masturbation for a while. See how it affects your thoughts and emotions. You might be surprised at how much clarity you gain. And if you still feel lost, consider talking to a therapist or someone who can help you sort out these conflicting feelings. It’s not about stopping masturbation altogether—it’s about finding balance and making sure it’s not controlling you.
There’s also the issue of how porn ties into this. A lot of guys fall into the habit of consuming more extreme content over time, which can warp expectations about real-life intimacy. If you’re watching videos that depict women in a degrading way, that could definitely influence how you think about them. Your mind gets conditioned to associate women with only one purpose, and that could explain why you're feeling more resentful or disconnected.
At the same time, it's important not to blame yourself too much. Your changing perspective on women could also be a result of past frustrations and disappointments. When you grow up feeling rejected or ignored, it’s easy to start resenting the people who didn’t give you a chance. But that’s not really fair to you or to them. Women are individuals, just like men, and they have their own struggles and experiences. Letting bitterness take over will only make it harder to build the kind of connection you say you still want deep down.
Maybe try taking a break from porn and cutting back on masturbation for a while. See how it affects your thoughts and emotions. You might be surprised at how much clarity you gain. And if you still feel lost, consider talking to a therapist or someone who can help you sort out these conflicting feelings. It’s not about stopping masturbation altogether—it’s about finding balance and making sure it’s not controlling you.