03-31-2025, 03:23 AM
Dude, been there, done that. I used to worry about this all the time, but the reality is, most guys don’t last long the first time. And you know what? It doesn’t even matter that much. Women care way more about how you make them feel overall than whether you last 10 minutes or 30 seconds.
A little trick that worked for me was mixing up my routine. If you always masturbate the same way (same speed, same grip, etc.), your body gets used to that stimulation. Switch it up—try slowing down, using a lighter grip, or even masturbating while standing up. This helps train your body to last longer when you’re actually with someone.
And here’s the thing—sex is supposed to be fun. If you’re overthinking it, you’ll psych yourself out and make it worse. Instead of worrying about lasting long, focus on making the entire experience enjoyable. There are tons of ways to satisfy a woman, and sex doesn’t have to be all about penetration.
Final thought: Your first time is just that—your first time. It’s not going to define your entire sex life. So relax, enjoy the ride, and trust that it’ll get better with experience.
A little trick that worked for me was mixing up my routine. If you always masturbate the same way (same speed, same grip, etc.), your body gets used to that stimulation. Switch it up—try slowing down, using a lighter grip, or even masturbating while standing up. This helps train your body to last longer when you’re actually with someone.
And here’s the thing—sex is supposed to be fun. If you’re overthinking it, you’ll psych yourself out and make it worse. Instead of worrying about lasting long, focus on making the entire experience enjoyable. There are tons of ways to satisfy a woman, and sex doesn’t have to be all about penetration.
Final thought: Your first time is just that—your first time. It’s not going to define your entire sex life. So relax, enjoy the ride, and trust that it’ll get better with experience.