03-31-2025, 03:22 AM
Man, I was exactly where you are when I lost my virginity. I used to be terrified I’d bust in like 10 seconds, and honestly, I did finish fast the first time—but it wasn’t a disaster like I imagined. The girl didn’t freak out or get mad. If anything, she thought it was flattering. The key is what you do after—round two is always better.
Masturbation habits do play a role, though. If you’re used to finishing quickly while jerking off, your body is trained to release fast. If you want to last longer, start slowing yourself down when you masturbate. Try holding off, controlling your breathing, and even using a different grip to simulate the real thing more closely.
And let’s not forget—the more you stress about it, the more likely it is to happen. I know, easier said than done, but confidence goes a long way. If you go in thinking, “Oh no, I’m gonna finish too soon,” your brain will make it happen. Instead, just relax, have fun, and remind yourself that no one’s perfect their first time.
With experience, you’ll gain control. Sex is a skill like any other—practice makes perfect. Before you know it, this won’t even be something you worry about anymore.
Masturbation habits do play a role, though. If you’re used to finishing quickly while jerking off, your body is trained to release fast. If you want to last longer, start slowing yourself down when you masturbate. Try holding off, controlling your breathing, and even using a different grip to simulate the real thing more closely.
And let’s not forget—the more you stress about it, the more likely it is to happen. I know, easier said than done, but confidence goes a long way. If you go in thinking, “Oh no, I’m gonna finish too soon,” your brain will make it happen. Instead, just relax, have fun, and remind yourself that no one’s perfect their first time.
With experience, you’ll gain control. Sex is a skill like any other—practice makes perfect. Before you know it, this won’t even be something you worry about anymore.