03-31-2025, 03:18 AM
Man, I felt that post in my soul! I’ve been there before, and it’s NOT fun. One time, I was using a tighter grip than usual and didn’t realize how much pressure I was applying. The next day, I woke up with a sore, red patch, and it hurt like hell whenever it rubbed against my underwear. Lesson learned—our dicks are tough, but they’re not indestructible.
I think another problem is that some guys get so used to a “death grip” that they don’t even realize they’re training their bodies the wrong way. When you grip too tight or stroke too aggressively, you’re basically desensitizing yourself over time. That can make regular sex feel way less stimulating because your body gets used to intense friction instead of natural, softer movements. It’s something I had to consciously untrain myself from.
Lubrication is definitely key, but also switching up techniques helps. Instead of going at it like you’re trying to start a fire, slowing down, using different strokes, and changing hand positions can make a big difference. It’s about quality, not just intensity. Also, warm water before and after can help relax the skin and keep it from getting too irritated.
Give it some time to heal, man, and don’t stress. It’ll bounce back, but maybe take this as a sign to be a bit more careful next time. No one wants battle scars from their own hand!
I think another problem is that some guys get so used to a “death grip” that they don’t even realize they’re training their bodies the wrong way. When you grip too tight or stroke too aggressively, you’re basically desensitizing yourself over time. That can make regular sex feel way less stimulating because your body gets used to intense friction instead of natural, softer movements. It’s something I had to consciously untrain myself from.
Lubrication is definitely key, but also switching up techniques helps. Instead of going at it like you’re trying to start a fire, slowing down, using different strokes, and changing hand positions can make a big difference. It’s about quality, not just intensity. Also, warm water before and after can help relax the skin and keep it from getting too irritated.
Give it some time to heal, man, and don’t stress. It’ll bounce back, but maybe take this as a sign to be a bit more careful next time. No one wants battle scars from their own hand!