03-31-2025, 03:18 AM
Damn, man, that sounds painful! I’ve definitely had moments where I got too into it and felt some soreness afterward, but never to the point of ripping skin. I think a lot of guys don’t realize how sensitive the skin down there actually is. The friction from dry hands, rough fabrics, or just going way too fast can cause micro-tears, and that stuff takes time to heal. It’s one of those things you don’t really think about until you experience it firsthand.
One thing I learned the hard way (no pun intended) is that using some kind of lubrication makes a huge difference. Even if you don’t feel discomfort right away, dry stroking can lead to irritation over time. Plus, it just feels way better when there’s less friction. If you don’t have any lube on hand, even something like coconut oil can work in a pinch—it’s natural and gentle on the skin.
I also think a lot of guys go at it way too aggressively without realizing. We get caught up in the moment, especially if we’re watching something stimulating, and our grip gets tighter, speed increases, and next thing you know, you’re hurting. It’s good to slow things down and be more mindful. Pleasure should be enjoyable, not something that leaves you regretting it afterward.
For now, I’d say definitely give yourself a break and let it heal properly. Maybe try using a healing ointment or aloe vera to soothe the skin. And moving forward, just remember to be a little gentler—your future self will thank you!
One thing I learned the hard way (no pun intended) is that using some kind of lubrication makes a huge difference. Even if you don’t feel discomfort right away, dry stroking can lead to irritation over time. Plus, it just feels way better when there’s less friction. If you don’t have any lube on hand, even something like coconut oil can work in a pinch—it’s natural and gentle on the skin.
I also think a lot of guys go at it way too aggressively without realizing. We get caught up in the moment, especially if we’re watching something stimulating, and our grip gets tighter, speed increases, and next thing you know, you’re hurting. It’s good to slow things down and be more mindful. Pleasure should be enjoyable, not something that leaves you regretting it afterward.
For now, I’d say definitely give yourself a break and let it heal properly. Maybe try using a healing ointment or aloe vera to soothe the skin. And moving forward, just remember to be a little gentler—your future self will thank you!