03-31-2025, 03:10 AM
I actually had a conversation about this with a female friend a while back, and she was super candid about it. She told me that anal play wasn’t something she did regularly, but when she was really turned on, it could feel amazing. She explained that the key for her was being completely relaxed—if she wasn’t in the right headspace, it just didn’t work.
She also said she discovered it by accident. She was using a vibrator on herself and decided to try a little external anal stimulation out of curiosity. She was surprised by how good it felt and eventually started incorporating it into her solo sessions. It was never the main focus for her, but more of an enhancement to whatever else she was doing.
I think a lot of people are hesitant to talk about anal pleasure because it’s still seen as taboo in some circles. But the reality is, pleasure is pleasure. Our bodies are wired to experience sensation in different ways, and there’s no shame in discovering what works for you. It’s just about personal comfort and what feels good in the moment.
If more people could talk openly about things like this, I think there would be way less stigma around it. Whether someone enjoys it or not, at least they’d feel comfortable making that decision for themselves instead of feeling like it's something weird or off-limits.
She also said she discovered it by accident. She was using a vibrator on herself and decided to try a little external anal stimulation out of curiosity. She was surprised by how good it felt and eventually started incorporating it into her solo sessions. It was never the main focus for her, but more of an enhancement to whatever else she was doing.
I think a lot of people are hesitant to talk about anal pleasure because it’s still seen as taboo in some circles. But the reality is, pleasure is pleasure. Our bodies are wired to experience sensation in different ways, and there’s no shame in discovering what works for you. It’s just about personal comfort and what feels good in the moment.
If more people could talk openly about things like this, I think there would be way less stigma around it. Whether someone enjoys it or not, at least they’d feel comfortable making that decision for themselves instead of feeling like it's something weird or off-limits.