03-31-2025, 03:09 AM
I went through this too when I first started experimenting. One of the biggest game changers for me was figuring out the right angle and pressure. At first, I was just inserting my finger straight in, and that was actually causing unnecessary pain because I wasn’t following the natural curve of my body. Once I started angling my finger slightly downward, it became a lot more comfortable.
Also, the way you apply pressure is super important. Instead of pushing in quickly, try more of a massaging motion. Slow, circular movements at the entrance help your muscles loosen up before you go any deeper. I also realized that just forcing my way in wasn’t doing me any favors. If it hurt, I would just stop, apply more lube, and start again even slower.
Another thing that might help is pre-stretching. If you’ve never done anything like this before, your muscles aren’t used to it, and it’s like trying to force something into a space that isn’t ready. Using something smaller first, like a single fingertip or even just light external pressure, can help train your body to relax.
I know it can be frustrating when you’re expecting pleasure but getting pain instead. Just remind yourself that this is a process, and the more you practice, the easier it gets. Pay attention to your body, try different techniques, and don’t rush yourself.
Also, the way you apply pressure is super important. Instead of pushing in quickly, try more of a massaging motion. Slow, circular movements at the entrance help your muscles loosen up before you go any deeper. I also realized that just forcing my way in wasn’t doing me any favors. If it hurt, I would just stop, apply more lube, and start again even slower.
Another thing that might help is pre-stretching. If you’ve never done anything like this before, your muscles aren’t used to it, and it’s like trying to force something into a space that isn’t ready. Using something smaller first, like a single fingertip or even just light external pressure, can help train your body to relax.
I know it can be frustrating when you’re expecting pleasure but getting pain instead. Just remind yourself that this is a process, and the more you practice, the easier it gets. Pay attention to your body, try different techniques, and don’t rush yourself.