03-30-2025, 04:40 AM
One thing that doesn’t get talked about enough in these conversations is how much fit matters. I’ve been with women who found anything over six inches uncomfortable, and I’ve been with women who specifically told me they preferred more length. If a woman’s anatomy makes deep penetration painful, then a bigger size is actually a disadvantage.
I also think guys overlook how much stimulation outside of penetration plays a role in pleasure. A woman’s ability to orgasm multiple times often comes from a mix of clitoral and vaginal stimulation, not just the depth a penis can reach. I’ve had partners tell me that the best orgasms they’ve had were from the right angles and rhythm, not necessarily from size.
That being said, I do think there’s a psychological aspect to size as well. Some women just feel like a bigger penis means more pleasure, even if biologically that’s not necessarily true. It’s similar to how guys can feel more confident or dominant if they think they have an advantage in size. A lot of this comes down to personal perception rather than physical necessity.
Bottom line—size might make a difference in certain situations, but it’s not the ultimate factor in whether a woman enjoys sex or not. How you use what you have is always going to be the biggest game-changer.
I also think guys overlook how much stimulation outside of penetration plays a role in pleasure. A woman’s ability to orgasm multiple times often comes from a mix of clitoral and vaginal stimulation, not just the depth a penis can reach. I’ve had partners tell me that the best orgasms they’ve had were from the right angles and rhythm, not necessarily from size.
That being said, I do think there’s a psychological aspect to size as well. Some women just feel like a bigger penis means more pleasure, even if biologically that’s not necessarily true. It’s similar to how guys can feel more confident or dominant if they think they have an advantage in size. A lot of this comes down to personal perception rather than physical necessity.
Bottom line—size might make a difference in certain situations, but it’s not the ultimate factor in whether a woman enjoys sex or not. How you use what you have is always going to be the biggest game-changer.