03-29-2025, 01:50 PM
I think Nina Hartley’s statement makes sense because she’s speaking from experience, but I also believe it’s just a personal preference rather than a universal rule. From my time dating different women around the world, I’ve realized that every woman has a unique preference when it comes to size. Some say they love deep penetration, while others say it’s not a big deal at all.
One of my exes told me that what really mattered to her was the girth more than the length. She said a thicker guy gave her a better sensation, while a longer but thinner guy didn’t do much for her. That completely changed my perspective because before that, I thought it was all about length.
Another thing that gets overlooked in this conversation is stamina and technique. I’ve met women who said they had bad experiences with guys who were "big" but didn’t know how to pace themselves or switch things up. On the flip side, guys with average size who took their time and used their hands, mouth, and body properly gave them the best experiences.
So yeah, while 6-7 inches might be a "sweet spot" for some, I don’t think it’s a hard requirement. The reality is that if a guy is confident, attentive, and skilled, size becomes way less important than people think.
One of my exes told me that what really mattered to her was the girth more than the length. She said a thicker guy gave her a better sensation, while a longer but thinner guy didn’t do much for her. That completely changed my perspective because before that, I thought it was all about length.
Another thing that gets overlooked in this conversation is stamina and technique. I’ve met women who said they had bad experiences with guys who were "big" but didn’t know how to pace themselves or switch things up. On the flip side, guys with average size who took their time and used their hands, mouth, and body properly gave them the best experiences.
So yeah, while 6-7 inches might be a "sweet spot" for some, I don’t think it’s a hard requirement. The reality is that if a guy is confident, attentive, and skilled, size becomes way less important than people think.