03-29-2025, 01:50 PM
I’ve been with women from different cultures while traveling, and I’ve noticed that preferences vary a lot. Some women don’t even bring up size, while others openly say they have a preference. I think a lot of it comes down to past experiences—if a woman has mostly been with bigger guys, she might think she needs that to feel good. But in reality, what she really needs is good technique.
A girl I dated in Colombia once told me she liked the feeling of being "filled up" but that she also needed the right movement. She said some guys thought just having size was enough, but they didn’t know how to control it, which made it less enjoyable. On the other hand, I’ve been with women who actually preferred something more average because it was more comfortable for them in the long run.
Also, I think a lot of guys underestimate the power of foreplay. The best experiences I’ve had with women came from building tension before penetration even started. Oral, fingers, teasing—all of that makes a huge difference. If you focus too much on inches, you’re missing out on what actually gets most women turned on.
So while 6-7 inches might be ideal for some, it’s not a dealbreaker for most. If you know how to turn a woman on properly, she won’t care about size nearly as much as guys think.
A girl I dated in Colombia once told me she liked the feeling of being "filled up" but that she also needed the right movement. She said some guys thought just having size was enough, but they didn’t know how to control it, which made it less enjoyable. On the other hand, I’ve been with women who actually preferred something more average because it was more comfortable for them in the long run.
Also, I think a lot of guys underestimate the power of foreplay. The best experiences I’ve had with women came from building tension before penetration even started. Oral, fingers, teasing—all of that makes a huge difference. If you focus too much on inches, you’re missing out on what actually gets most women turned on.
So while 6-7 inches might be ideal for some, it’s not a dealbreaker for most. If you know how to turn a woman on properly, she won’t care about size nearly as much as guys think.