03-29-2025, 01:49 PM
I think Nina Hartley’s opinion makes a lot of sense. She’s been in the industry for decades, so she’s had more experience than the average woman when it comes to different sizes. If she says 6-7 inches is ideal, there’s probably a reason for it. That size range is big enough to provide deep penetration but not so big that it causes discomfort.
From my own experience, I’ve dated women who said they preferred a certain size, but when it came down to it, it was really about how well I used what I had. Some girls liked deep strokes, others preferred slow and shallow movements. A lot of guys focus way too much on inches when, in reality, rhythm, control, and knowing how to tease a woman are way more important.
One of my exes told me that her best experiences weren’t with the biggest guys but with the ones who took their time. She said size only matters to an extent, and anything beyond that is just a bonus. This matches what a lot of research says—that most women need clitoral stimulation more than penetration to orgasm.
So yeah, while 6-7 inches might be a "sweet spot" for some women, it’s not a hard rule. There’s no universal ideal, and at the end of the day, confidence and skill will always be more important than raw size.
From my own experience, I’ve dated women who said they preferred a certain size, but when it came down to it, it was really about how well I used what I had. Some girls liked deep strokes, others preferred slow and shallow movements. A lot of guys focus way too much on inches when, in reality, rhythm, control, and knowing how to tease a woman are way more important.
One of my exes told me that her best experiences weren’t with the biggest guys but with the ones who took their time. She said size only matters to an extent, and anything beyond that is just a bonus. This matches what a lot of research says—that most women need clitoral stimulation more than penetration to orgasm.
So yeah, while 6-7 inches might be a "sweet spot" for some women, it’s not a hard rule. There’s no universal ideal, and at the end of the day, confidence and skill will always be more important than raw size.