01-28-2025, 03:56 PM
I can totally relate to your situation. My ex was the same way—she could only climax from oral, and no matter how many different techniques we tried during intercourse, she just couldn’t get there. I used to feel like I wasn’t doing enough, but then I realized that it wasn’t a reflection of my performance; it was just how her body responded. Some women just need that direct clitoral stimulation to really get to the peak of pleasure.
It’s so refreshing to see that you’re handling this with an open mind and a desire to explore together. The fact that she doesn’t seem frustrated is a big plus, and that shows that she’s genuinely comfortable with the way things are. I’d suggest trying to bring more of that oral pleasure into your sex life by combining it with penetration. You could try using your hand or a toy while you’re together to bring her closer to orgasm. There are a lot of ways to mix things up without feeling like you have to “fix” anything.
Have you thought about experimenting with positions that might give her more clitoral stimulation during intercourse? Positions like doggy style or missionary with a slight angle can sometimes help target that area better. But again, the most important thing is that you’re both in tune with each other’s needs and desires. As long as you communicate openly, you’re doing great.
Remember that it’s normal for people to experience pleasure differently, and there’s no one “right” way to climax. It’s clear you’re already focusing on her pleasure, and that’s what matters most. Keep enjoying the journey of discovering what works best for you both.
It’s so refreshing to see that you’re handling this with an open mind and a desire to explore together. The fact that she doesn’t seem frustrated is a big plus, and that shows that she’s genuinely comfortable with the way things are. I’d suggest trying to bring more of that oral pleasure into your sex life by combining it with penetration. You could try using your hand or a toy while you’re together to bring her closer to orgasm. There are a lot of ways to mix things up without feeling like you have to “fix” anything.
Have you thought about experimenting with positions that might give her more clitoral stimulation during intercourse? Positions like doggy style or missionary with a slight angle can sometimes help target that area better. But again, the most important thing is that you’re both in tune with each other’s needs and desires. As long as you communicate openly, you’re doing great.
Remember that it’s normal for people to experience pleasure differently, and there’s no one “right” way to climax. It’s clear you’re already focusing on her pleasure, and that’s what matters most. Keep enjoying the journey of discovering what works best for you both.